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I have an oral fixation and would enjoy eating you out as much as having you pay homage up and down my throbbing shaft.

I enjoy the idea of bondage - collars, cuffs, blindfolds, gags, rope, hoods, spreader bars, etc., some discipline, d edging and orgasms. Impact play to the extent it ens dominance... or achieving sub-space.

Identifying as a switch, the sub in me would seek to ensure your pleasure even in the role of a dom, even though I know enough not to necessarily show it outwardly.

Ideally, I'm looking for non-coital encounters, though with enough trust, I may be open to anal exploration with a dom/sub component.
A big part for me is the physical gratification. Though this does not preclude the possibility of deeper connections and moving towards something longer term.

Profile is quite sparse because I haven't really tried that much, still pushing the evelope of new experiences.
Seeking like-minded souls.
Willing to try whatever piques our curiosity so long as if it is in a safe environment.

Hard limits include:
Knives, fire (wax is fine tho), anything with high infection risks or leaves permanent marks.

Also curious about: watersports, petplay, orgasm denial, bodyworship, multiple people dom and sub session.

A chat over tea is preferred over endless texting with someone I have never met.

Seeking like-minded souls. Is there any one out there?