Mature Daddy Dom, looking for the one submissive who understands this is a lifestyle not an occasional romp in the bedroom, as was in days gone by, She knew early that she was not a feminist, she could not explain it, but she knew deep down inside that she was different, she would come to understand that her happiness came from surrendering free will and control naturally to a dominant who understood her needs and not only cherished the gift she gave willingly, but accepted the responsibilities that come from accepting this gift. She has experienced the lifestyle and knows in her heart her place is kneeling at her Doinants feet. The life I live is that of the protector, the provider, the leader, my method is not that of ruling through and intimidation.
A true submissive quietly experiences true pleasure in the praise and rewards earned by her own need to serve and please her Dom in everything she does.
To be clear if I deem a punishment is required to modify bad behavior I will not hesitate to do so. And my experience has provided me with a library of punishments, I believe that some behaviors cannot be effectively modified without including a degree of
ful punishment, not all punishment requires *** to be effective.
If you are interested in learning more about my personal experiences then you will reach out to me, to dismiss your desire to gain a deeper understanding of your own needs only denies you of the possibility of true happiness.
Again let me be clear, who I seek is a submissive woman who is truly submissive in every aspect of her life, not only a sexual submissive.

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