As someone who has been in the Community since they where 21.
I have been on this learning and passion to understand how to be a great leader. Am I perfect? The answer is no I make mistakes and still today try to be humble enough to grow as a Dominate. As now I grow I have not mastered one single path alone but have much experience to look upon as a whole. I first began as a submissive to understand both sides of a coin one must study both sides of the lifestyle. In my own opinion it has made me a better Dominate. I am Heterosexual after being sexually d at a young age it has totally turned me off of socializing. I was sexually active up to that point and it took 5 years of being lead by some one with great values to teach me how to be trusting again. I Just came out and told my family less then a few years ago about my sexual after hiding it for almost 40 years. So I must get to know someone is the first step into what I am looking for. I am a Dominate not a person that will pay to play or give you . The community today is so lost in values its very Insulting. It is one thing If I want to do something nice for you. This attitude of pay me ore else is far from the true Values of why we are here. There is no greater disrespect then subbing from the bottom up. Discipline and respect should be what you truly seek as a submissive. The moment you lose these by being judgmental shallow and picky. Are you putting you best foot forward? Your to old for me or I have to be attracted to that person. I have heard it all but then they find that Finance Sugar daddy or momma but they lack the skills to be a Master/Dominate or they get hurt d and neglected. Truth is you should be careful there are a lot of pretenders calling them self Dominate or Mistress. I have a nice 12 inch thick strap on I love to use in multiple ways Filling Your holes prefer to use it leaving my hot cum for your face or body.....sound fun message me No MTF or Males Married is fine but I work alone Drop her off for the weekend and they must not interfere in Relationship or Dynamic. and Polly is ok, Females only. Relationship Dynamic . Impact Play, Orgasm Controle and Deny, Bondage, Ropes and d Orgasms, Masks, Nipple Pussy and Anal Thys Back and hand and feet Kneeling, Domestic Dutys mild/strong/Hardcore depending on your tolerance for . punishments may include Chasity Bet Anal Plugs and training Couch Time Corner Time Grounding of Favored Things. Kneeling based on tolerances punishment are based on the offences and fit the Brats Be Warned.

Hard Limits: play (everything to do with it), body hair (Dislike), breath play (everything to do with it), cutting (everything to do with it), gangbangs (everything to do with it), needle play (everything to do with it), pubic hair (Dislike),, strap-ons (Not on me), toilet (everything to do with it), (everything to do with it), Uncontrolled *** (everything to do with it), waterbondage (everything to do with it), watersports (everything to do with it)
Rave Dm me in chat lets get to know one another.

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