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How BDSM Can Help You Find Self-Acceptance

After growing up in a household where sex was shamed, discovering BDSM helped Sienna Saint-Cyr to find self-acceptance and enjoyment when it came to

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BDSM and Mental Health: Using Kink to Beat the Blues

While there's many causes and treatments of depression and mental health issues, some have found solace in what may appear to be an unlikely place:

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Odaxelagnia: Sink Your Teeth Into a Kink for Biting!

A nibble on the neck or ear can be incredibly erotic. But what if your partner wants to go further and really sink their teeth in? Then they may be

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What is Vore? Exploring the Meaning of This Curious Kink

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Have you ever heard of vore, or – to give it its full name – vorarephilia? If so, do you know the difference between soft and hard vore? This month Molly advises one member who wants to fully

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Impact Play: How to Handle a Hard Spanking

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As a self-identified masochist, Victoria Blisse finds pleasure in the pain impact play brings. A lover of a hard spanking, here she shares a few safety tips to help set the scene for some hands-on

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Molly's BDSM for Beginners Tips: Getting Started in Kink

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New to the scene? Want to know more about BDSM for beginners? Our resident BDSM advice guru Molly is here to help. She shares her top ideas for things to try out for newbies wanting to explore kink

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Taking a Bite Out of Vampire Fetish and Vampirism

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Even within the diverse and accepting S&M culture, vampirism and people with a vampire fetish might be misunderstood. Separate fact from fiction by discovering more about the different types of

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A Brief History of Hosiery Fetish

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Lots of people have a hosiery and stocking fetish; there is just something irresistible about the look and feel of them on the legs. We asked writer Caitlin to investigate where this popular fetish

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How to Gape Your Ass: the Hole Truth About Anal Gaping

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Ever wondered how to anal gape? Fetish.com’s Victoria Blisse has looked deep into the subject! Here she explores what anal gaping is and gives five steps on how to gape sexily and

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There’s the Rub! Frotting and Frotteurism

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Frottage is a well-known kink involving rubbing genitalia against another person – often not consenting – so, what is frotting exactly, and is there any difference? Victoria Blisse reflects on the

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Molly's BDSM tips | What does PRICK mean?

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Do you find the different BDSM safety terms confusing? This month our BDSM advice guru Molly answers one couple's kinky query: what does PRICK mean? Learn the difference between SSC, RACK and

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Let's Take a Look at Mirror Sex (Katoptronophilia)

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Mirror mirror on the wall. Who’s the kinkiest of them all? Victoria Blisse reflects on the joys of mirror sex – so-called katoptronophilia.
 
Looking into the mirror is a mundane

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Molly's BDSM Tips | Should My Partner and I Go Dogging?

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What is dogging exactly? In celebration of our Outdoor Month, our BDSM advice guru Molly offers some tips to one couple interested in trying it for the first time. Buckle up! 
 
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BDSM vs Abuse: Recognizing the Difference

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While BDSM is fun, it’s essential to ensure it's safe and consensual. Getting kinky can be boundary-pushing, but it can also be a risky physical activity that can lead to abuse. Author and educator

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Fear Play: A Guide to Going Beyond Kinky Talk

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Ever been in the middle of sex when suddenly your partner said something that made you catch your breath with both excitement and terror? Welcome to fear play, where you don’t run from the stuff that

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Predicament Bondage: A Guide

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Bondage bunnies are very familiar with the pleasures that come from being tied up, along with the loss of control. But what if you're interested in a more devious experience? Victoria Blisse gives

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Quirofilia: Taking a Fetish into Your Own Hands!

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Do manicured hands and painted nails turn you on? Or do you prefer rough, veiny, hairy hands? If so, you may enjoy quirofilia – a fetish for hands, nails or fingers. Victoria Blisse scratches the

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What's A Kinky Cast Fetish All About?

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Being stuck in a cast isn't usually considered pleasurable, but for those kinksters with a cast fetish, it can be an exciting inconvenience. Victoria Blisse explores why some of us enjoy abasiophilia

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Orgasm and Cum Control: 3 Ways to Play

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Love orgasm or cum control or wanna know more about it? We asked Stella Harris to give her top three ways to use orgasm control in your kinky play, starting with less intense practices and then more

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Molly's BDSM Tips | What is felching? Exploring this intimate kink

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Heard of the term felching but not sure exactly what it means? Our BDSM advice guru Molly is here to help. This month – for Anal April – she explains the definition of felching to one curious couple

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Does Anal Hurt? 5 First-Time Anal Sex Tips

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We can all enjoy the pleasures of anal sex, but being nervous about trying it for the first time is normal. So, if you're wondering 'does anal hurt?', listen to our BDSM advice columnist Molly

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Exploring Klismaphilia Kink and Enema Fetish

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Douching using an enema before anal play is common, but if the act of colon cleansing itself turns you on more than anal itself, you may have the kink of klismaphilia. Continuing our anal April

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Molly's BDSM Tips | How to Prepare for Anal Play

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April is anal month here at FET. This week, Molly helps out one FET member who is looking for how to prepare for anal play for the first time. So, from gently exploring the anus to douching, here are

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How to get started with BDSM: Tips & Tricks

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Are you ready to explore BDSM? If you’re curious about the kinkier side of sexuality and want to get started, then look no further! This article is full

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Interview with a Dominatrix | Why Trust is a Must

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The life of a Dominatrix intrigues many people, but what drives someone to choose this vocation? Does the Dominatrix fear for her safety? And how can she integrate this career with everyday life?

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Our Guide to FemDom or Mixed Wrestling

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Do you love the idea of a BDSM power exchange that is all about physical Dominance? No equipment, just strength? Maybe you should give FemDom wrestling – AKA mixed wrestling – a try. But what does it

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How to Deal with a BDSM Break-up

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They say breaking up is hard to do, but what do you do if your Master or Mistress suddenly dismisses you without warning? Our Molly offers up four top tips to one Fetish.com member who is struggling

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Molly's BDSM Tips | Making Sense of an Unusual Poop Fetish

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Believing you have an unusual fetish or kink is quite common, especially if you don't fully understand it or have others to explore it with. This week, our BDSM advice guru Molly serves up some

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