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BDSM is a phenomenon that is receiving more and more attention in mainstream culture. Streaming portals like Netflix prove the recent boom in interest with comedy series' like 'Bonding' – a story about a young dominatrix and her gay best friend – and illustrate how BDSM is much more than an erotic side note. Many people are longing for more than just 'vanilla sex'.
Of course, enlisting the help of a professional dominatrix to live out your kink fantasies is one option, but not everyone is brave enough to take this first step IRL. This is where erotic hypnosis comes in.
"BDSM hypnosis allows listeners to live out their most intimate fantasies, without actually having to visit a dominatrix. No one has to betray any partner by exploring fetish in secret, and it’s possible to experience all their fantasies in a safe setting," says Lady Tara, who has received two awards for her erotic hypnosis.
In the realm of BDSM, experiencing certain fetishes through hypnosis is much safer. The use of electroshock or practices like pegging or bondage, for example, can come with certain risks. Through erotic hypnosis, the listener can experience every fetish and kink as if it was real, without actually having to set up a physical session.
"The variety of fetishes to explore is as colorful and diverse as the people themselves, and through my hypnosis it’s possible to experience them without remorse or guilt," explains Lady Tara. "The only limit is your own imagination.“
Broaden the mind, and it's possible to experience a visit to a dominatrix studio, a golden shower fantasy, or simply just having sex with two people at the same time (to name a few). And when using erotic hypnosis in a relationship, the sky's the limit when it comes to enhancing and intensifying the role play.
Erotic hypnosis is often frowned upon in the BDSM scene, because many believe that it does not follow the principle of SSC (Safe, Sane and Consensual). This is completely incorrect, Lady Tara says.
No one can be forced to do anything through hypnosis that he, she, or they do not actually want. The hypnotized person is consciously deciding to accept certain commands. In fact, hypnosis is great at establishing commands to control the submissive partner. For example, making them unable to move or talk, to feel every touch much more intensively, or to experience the taste of golden showers so sweet and delicious.
The power of erotic hypnosis can bring relationships to new levels of sexual dominance and submission. The dominant partner can decide if the sub is allowed to have orgasms or not. Through post-hypnotic suggestion, it’s even possible to force your partner to have an orgasm or train them to follow certain behavioral patterns, like the urge to fall on their knees as soon as they hear a specific trigger word.
There are limitations to erotic hypnosis. As mentioned before, nobody can be forced to do something that he, she, or they reject deep inside. This means it would not be possible to change your partner’s sexuality, if there is not already a hidden desire for it. Our subconscious has a safety function that cannot be disabled.
During the hypnosis, listeners are aware of what is happening to them, so they can wake up anytime if anything should go against their personal principles. "The subconscious protects us and knows exactly what is right and what is not," says Lady Tara. In Lady Tara’s erotic hypnosis recordings, you may feel her whip lashing on your body like it's really happening, or experience anal sex or electroshock.
Yes, it can: BDSM hypnosis is like an exciting series or captivating movie on Netflix, in which the viewer follows the plot in a very visceral way. The only difference is that the listener's focus is deepened by hypnosis. Through an intense and progressive relaxation technique, the listener can focus on the words, allowing them to sink into a daydream-like state where everything feels completely real. Often, listeners aren't sure if the experience was real, or if it was just a dream.
In the spirit of total honesty, Lady Tara admits that erotic hypnosis does not work for absolutely everyone. But she maintains for most people it can – and is – successful. Just like in BDSM, hypnosis can only work when there’s one basic requirement: trust.
Would you like to find out more about erotic hypnosis and BDSM? Do you want to experience being hypnotized yourself? Visit erotic-hypnosis.com to find a large collection of free hypnosis sessions to enjoy.
Have you ever experienced erotic hypnosis? What was your experience like? Let us know!
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