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How BDSM Can Help You Find Self-Acceptance

After growing up in a household where sex was shamed, discovering BDSM helped Sienna Saint-Cyr to find self-acceptance and enjoyment when it came to

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BDSM and Mental Health: Using Kink to Beat the Blues

While there's many causes and treatments of depression and mental health issues, some have found solace in what may appear to be an unlikely place:

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Odaxelagnia: Sink Your Teeth Into a Kink for Biting!

A nibble on the neck or ear can be incredibly erotic. But what if your partner wants to go further and really sink their teeth in? Then they may be

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Molly’s BDSM Tips | Should a Dominant Dictate to their Sub?

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Does being in a D/s relationship allow a Dominant to prohibit certain things for their sub? While the answer may seem straightforward enough, our BDSM advice columnist Molly gives some sage advice to

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Watersports | A Quick Guide to Golden Showers and Piss Play

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Wanna get down and dirty with piss play? We encourage all of that, but just how dirty is watersports? We asked Victoria Blisse to serve up this quick and easy guide to having the fun you're bursting

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How to Know When BDSM Fantasies Violate Consent

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We all have kinky thoughts and fantasies, but when does a personal BDSM fantasy become a consent violation? Why is it wrong to objectify women and other genders? We all want to be sex-positive and

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Molly's BDSM Tips | What is Ethical Non-Monogamy?

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If you've never come across the terms 'ethical non-monogamy' or 'nesting partner', fear not, our Molly returns to help out one confused member on understanding the notion of a 'nesting partner' and

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Molly's BDSM Tips | How to Talk About Your Pubic Hair Fetish

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We all know there's nothing wrong with having a fetish for pubic hair. But in a world where many people shave their pubes, how do you go about telling a potential partner that you'd like them to keep

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Molly's BDSM Tips for Your First Pegging Experience

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Ever wanted to give pegging a try and not known where to begin? This week our BDSM advice columnist Molly gives one of our members some tips on how to go about it for the first time - from choosing a

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Molly's BDSM Tips | How Can I Join the Mile-High Club?

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Many of us enjoy the thrill of doing something taboo along with the risk of being discovered. But what if the fun involves kink on a plane? Our Molly tackles a question from one Fetish.com member who

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Molly's BDSM Tips | How to Achieve Kink on a Budget

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A lot of BDSM equipment and kink toys can be pricey, but what if you want to fill up your kinky stash of playthings and are on a tight budget? Our Molly helps out one kinky couple with some advice on

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Molly's BDSM Tips | How Do I Reveal My Headscissor Fetish? 


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Revealing a kink or fetish to a partner can be tricky, especially if you’re unsure on how to approach that convo. This week, our BDSM guru Molly serves up some useful advice to one member with a

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Blood Play & Vampirism | A Kinksters Guide

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Of all bodily fluids, blood evokes the strongest reactions. For many people, responses are made up of fear, disgust or distress but, for some, fascination and a profound excitement. Considered one of

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Molly's BDSM Tips | Building Confidence as a New Dom

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Being new to a Dominant role certainly doesn't mean you have to know all the answers, but establishing Dom sub trust and admitting mistakes all form part of the learning process. Find out what our

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Molly's BDSM Tips | Exploring Abandonment Play

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BDSM abandonment play – AKA abandonment fantasy or abandonment fetish – is common on the kink scene, but how do you go about assessing the risks? Our advice columnist Molly gives some tips to one

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The Hypnotic Appeal of Erotic Hypnosis

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Erotic hypnosis (or sexual hypnosis) is becoming a widespread practice within d/s relationships as a form of play and power exchange. So, if you've ever wondered about erotic hypnosis, how it works

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BDSM & Sex | Does all BDSM Play have to be Sexual?

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Lock and key, knife and fork, horse and carriage – all go together but does BDSM and sex always have to go hand in hand? Victoria Blisse discusses the different ways you can have BDSM play with your

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Molly's BDSM Tips | Curious about Penis Torture?

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Pondering about penis torture? Bursting for some ball busting? This week, our BDSM columnist Molly, responds to a Fetish.com member who is curious about CBT (cock and ball torture) and would like to

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Molly's BDSM Tips | Small Penis Humiliation | Should I Reduce My Size?

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Our BDSM advice columnist, Molly, is back this week responding to one Fetish.com member who is considering penis reduction surgery as a result of his small penis humiliation kink. Read on to find out

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Molly's BDSM Tips | How Do I Find a Partner to Fulfil a BDSM Fantasy?

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At times, it's easy to think that we may be the only ones with a particular kink or fetish. This week, Molly responds to one Fetish.com member who is looking to fulfil a BDSM fantasy, but is having

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Molly's BDSM Tips | How Can I Find a Woman into Fart Fetishism?

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This week, one Fetish.com member asks a common question to our BDSM advice columnist Molly - how to go about finding a windy woman who would be happy to satisfy his fart fetish? 
  
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Why Are Kinksters Into Pubic Hair Removal?

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Pubes and pubic hair removal have a fascinating history. Have you ever noticed most kinksters usually shave pubic hair away completely? Writer Kayla Lords looks at the many reasons why pubic hair

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Molly’s BDSM Tips | How Do I Tell My Wife I Have a Crossdressing Kink?

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This week, one Fetish.com member asks our BDSM advice columnist Molly, for help on how to approach telling his wife about his crossdressing kink.
  
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I'm an alpha male, but

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Molly’s BDSM Tips | Did I Poison My D/s Relationship?

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Our BDSM advice columnist Molly, helps out one Fetish.com member on matters of consent and communication after being left confused and blaming himself when his Dominant ends their D/s

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Molly's BDSM Tips | Do Doms and Subs Want a Switch as a Partner?

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Our BDSM advice columnist Molly, assists a new Fetish.com member by helping him realise that being a BDSM switch isn't the real cause of not being able to find a kinky partner. 
  
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Our Naughty Guide to Erotic Spanking

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Getting a spanking doesn't have to be actual torture unless of course, you like it like that. Here's our erotic spanking guide for both newbies or seasoned kinksters.
 
More than one way

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Molly's BDSM Tips | How Can I Find a New Partner into my Kink?

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Feel like you're the only one with your kink? Fear not, our BDSM advice columnist Molly, assists a Fetish.com member by helping him realise that his bondage kink is more common than he thinks, and

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Molly's BDSM Tips | How Do 24/7 D/s Relationships Work?

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Our resident BDSM advice columnist Molly comes to the rescue of a new Fetish.com member who needs clarity on how 24/7 D/s relationships work - and advises on the red flags to watch out

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