Does the idea of hard face slapping as part of your BDSM play, terrify you or turn you on? Sienna Saint-Cyr shares her experiences of hard face slapping to help you understand this often
A Fetish.com member new to BDSM, asks our advice columnist Molly, for help on how to tackle the difficult issue of dating someone who only takes part in BDSM play to please the other, despite them
This week, a Fetish.com member asks our BDSM advice columnist Molly, if dressing up in kinky women's clothing is strange, and how to talk to his partner about exploring his interest in forced
This week, a new Fetish member asks our resident BDSM advice columnist Molly, for help on explaining hard and soft limits - and if it's ever acceptable to push boundaries.
Dear Molly,
This week, one Fetish.com member asks our resident BDSM advice columnist Molly, for tips on training her married sub and receives advice on how to define boundaries within their Dom and sub
Not sure what gift to get that special sub-one? Instead of spending money on things, give the gift that keeps on giving: a mindfuck, says writer Kayla Lords.
A BDSM mindfuck in
This week, one of our members asks our resident BDSM advice columnist Molly, to explain more about the diverse dynamics that sit under the umbrella term of age play. Find out what she
Often, we see subs new to the BDSM scene looking for experienced Dominants. But how common is it for seasoned subs to seek out and guide inexperienced Dom/mes? This week, one of our members asks our
This week, our BDSM advice columnist Molly Moore gives a new Fet member some kinky advice on where they can learn rope bondage - and some useful tips on how to find a rope play partner.
Subspace is well known by people within the BDSM scene, it’s an altered state of being where a submissive totally lets go and is under the complete control of their Dom. But have you ever heard of
Our resident BDSM advice columnist Molly Moore gives some sound advice to a Fetish.com member, who finds that her Daddy Dom/babygirl relationship dynamic suddenly changes after her Daddy Dom moves
BDSM isn’t just about dungeons and chains, sometimes you’re looking for sub-one covered in frilly lace, cleaning your house and pleasuring your guests… Forced feminization or sissification is
Wanna get seriously wet? And, no, we don’t mean just in that way. Welcome to the world of helpless submission that is water bondage. We give you the lowdown on what it is, and how to stay within your
Us kinksters are all a little on the outside of societal norms, which helps bind us as a community. It’s great to feel supported by others who understand what we love, and while being kink positive
A life without limits sounds like something we should want. Boundaries are surely things that stop us from achieving the very best? We asked Victoria Blisse to explain why everyone should have BDSM
Facesitting, or queening, is a kink that’s been in the news recently with numerous tabloids taking a startlingly positive attitude to it. While this is all good news, we focus on the power of
Fart fetishism is the sexual arousal by flatulence and while some people consider a fart fetish to be relatively niche, eproctophilia – to give it its formal name – is possibly more common than you
Have you ever felt the urge to kneel in front of your partner to let them put their feet up on you or rest a drink? Maybe you’d like to be a human chandelier or lampstand? This desire to be human
We now know that emotional/psychological abuse can scar for a lifetime, but for some people, those words are exciting to play with. When engaging in humiliation play and degradation, certain words,
Most of us played doctors and nurses as a kid, but for some of us, that childhood game develops into an adult sexual fantasy. But with uniforms, roles and tools to consider, here is our guide to
What are the first qualities you think a dominant should possess? As we're about to explain, there's more than meets the eye to being a perfect dominant...
There are many qualities
Thanks to the internet, the fetish of financial domination, or Findom, is growing. But with a mistress controlling the income of her slave – or pay pig – could the rewards lead to ruin instead?
New to BDSM? Need BDSM advice? No fear, intimacy educator, sex coach and author Stella Starlight's monthly advice column is here to help. This month, Stella responds to a fetish.com member who has
Tightlacing (or corset training) is the practice of wearing a tightly laced corset to experience physical restriction or achieve long-term body modification. Although corsets are widely associated
Fed up with punishing your sub/slave with a simple whipping? Let’s spice things up a bit, in every sense of the word. Next time you're at the supermarket, pick up some ginger and try the ancient