About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
- NSA (no strings...)
- BDSM Lovers
- Pic Exchange
- Cybersex
Description
Rock fan... travelled the world... now loitering in Wolves.
Currently I've hit 21 countries in 23 years! in the year before covid Austria and Czech Republic were added, as well as a trip to San Francisco! Then, this year, Portugal became no.21
I'm 49. I work. I know the difference between a hat and a boa constrictor who's swallowed an elephant! (You'd be surprised who doesn't!)
I am, adept at adapting! I've a formidable vocabulary, and IQ, neither of which get much of an outing in everyday life. Disparate not desperate fits me well. Complex yet simple.
I'm pretty much Occam's (sic : Ockham!) worst nightmare. Come say "Hi!".
I'm more than the sum of my parts. Which is probably a good thing. They're old (but not THAT old) and need tending to. haha
Desires and Fantasies
Well.. I've always wanted to suckle from a woman who's lactating... and to have her astride me and squirt milk on me. Which.. I guess is kind of specific haha. Although in fairness... I'm not limited to that.
ANR / ABF interests me a lot though!
There's much to explore. I'm not adverse to administering a spank or two, and my threshold is decent enough that I can manage that happening to me too!
Wear stockings (with suspenders.. NOT hold ups!! They're cheating!) for me and I'll be putty in your hands. Well... perhaps putty isn't biologically accurate given it's a malleable thing and I would be somewhat.. rigider! Is that a word? It is now!
I'm generally playful. Get my brain working and you'll have access to the rest easily. It is possible to engage my body first... but it's unusual. I know me and know what I react to... but.. there's always that one person who pops up and stirs something different... and who doesn't like the idea of being swept away by urges?
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_My brain definitely needs engaging. I can be excited by a visual, but I'm looking for something more substantial. I like to be pushed (as well as pulled) and enjoy confidence in a lass. Especially when she knows I like her. It's.. exciting to be to her. Reactive in a way that I'm not able to control. _
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Make of all this what you will. Prod me at your leisure. See what I am to/for you. You might be pleasantly surprised.
Limits
Engaging with people who are very obviously not what they're attempting to be.
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- Anal Play
- Anal Beads
- Anal Plugs
- Breast Fetish
- Breast Play
- Corsets
- Cunnilingus
- Lingerie Fetish
- Facesitting
- Female Ejaculation
- Restraints (Active)
- Clitoral Pump
- Lactation Fetish
- Multiple Orgasms (Active)
- Mutual Masturbation
- Nipple Play
- Nipples
- Oral Sex (Active)
- Orgasm Control
- Cock Ring
- Prostate Massager
- Spanking
- Squirting
- Submission (Active)
- Vibrators
Fetish.com gives you…
Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Wolverhampton with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!
I've been here on and off for 5 years. What's happened here almost without exception is this: While I have a free membership I'll get 2-3 visits most days, of which generally 1 will be visible, (and also coincidentally that will usually be well outside my area and more often than not, not the Read more… gender I'm looking for) although there's often cases where there's 5 or more who've viewed and all of whom are blurred out....
Whereas.... when I accrue enough points to get a vip/prem membership which lasts for a couple of weeks, I will almost invariably get no visits throughout that period of time.
On the odd occasion that someone visits and I can see them and they're viable to contact because they fit into what/who I'm looking to interact with, 85% of the time I'll get "This member is very popular you'll have to upgrade to message them".
Occam's razor suggests... if it walks like a horse and sounds like a horse.. etc etc.
I've been to 21 countries in the last 23 years and I don't drive, nor have I ever needed to.
It's bizarre. And massively superficial. In what way shape or form does driving impact on a person's personality, or sexual compatibility?
How Read more… shallow are people?
It's kinda scary if I'm honest!
As soon as it expires... 5 visitors in 12 hours, none of whom can be seen.
Seems legit.
*disclaimer* Read more… Posting for a friend!
#intentionalirony
#satire
#orisit?
I sit,
Watching.
The posts scroll by.
No nuance.
No subtlety.
Abrupt, like a strike,
A literal punch,
A sentence delivered like a courtroom proclamation.
"I'll fuck you!"
"Nice tits!"
"Bitch!"
And other such delights.
Does this ever Read more… work?
This lack of cultured delivery?
I worry.
Is this the dynamic you're looking for?
Or just a play into a world of self ***?
Utilising humans to self harm.
Gleaning your adrenaline hit from a "master"
Who's no clue about your mental health,
Or for that matter, his own!
Does he understand that need for nurture?
Does he even care?
A snake biting its own tail...
I see it,
Escalate!
Envenomating itself.
Buying in to her demons.
Feeding his urge to *** with her "permission",
Not seeing the signs that this is trauma, not pleasure he's creating..
For both of them.
There's no bonding here.
No oxytocin.
No dopamine through pleasure,
But instead through ***.
Feeding a very different addiction.
Destructive, intrusive, abusive.
Bully and bullied,
Harmer and harmed,
Affirmed by a lack of understanding of a dynamic,
But instead just the physical act,
With no depth,
No joy,
And no consequence.
Save for that which they bring upon themselves.
Which, of course,
Is what they wanted.
Compounding and expanding on their own self ***.
A mental flagellation,
With a many thonged whip,
And all the time they use their label,
Dom and Sub, Sub and Dom,
Without a clue as to its real meaning,
To desecrate each other,
To decimate themselves,
Until, one day, it goes too far.
That final exultation of the downward spiral takes them forever.
Past the point of no return.
For one of them, quite literally.
While the other is left,
Covered in the spillage of their own making.
There's no tissue thick enough
To wipe that mess away.
Just more self loathing,
With an urge to do it all again,
Faster this time.
Harder.
In the subconscious hope that,
This time,
It's their turn not to come back.
At least make it believable FFS
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