Hi everyone! I’m wondering if I could get some advice or something.
hubby and I are just beginning to explore our Dom/Sub relationship. We’ve been together for almost 7 years and are pretty intuned with each other. Last night we went a little too far when it came to choking.
my face is covered in
Read more…like a red rash, im a little more tired than normal, and my throat is really sore. I’m currently military and getting a medical appointment is pretty difficult right now due to COVID.
should I be worried? Or just baby myself and avoid any further stress to the area?
please no shaming, I already know that we went too far, crossed some boundaries, and did not practice safely. We are addressing it.
Everyone has already made excellent points on the more pertinent factors at play here.
I thought that it may be worth while to highlight the fact that those symptoms Read more… may be the result of breath play alone but may also be a result of a combination of factors arising in the session.
I will illustrate the alternatives -
If that rash is primarily around the mouth and the areas where choking occurred it could be caused by abrasion from stubble, beard or rough skin.
The feeling of being tired - I do not know if you sub space in your sessions or get into a different mental head space, but this could be caused by the come down from that neuro-chemical high.
Yep that throat soreness probably is the choking.
Take care and I am sure you will get all the bumps ironed out.
YOU both need to know, this life has some very real dangers to it, and you have put yourself at risk with failing to research the type of play you participate in. I KNOW you are going to say, your aware of that NOW, but what I am more concerned about is other newbies learning about these dangers and NOT doing the same as you, and possibly ending up dead.