Hi there, I am looking for advice on how best to introduce a new dom to the world of kink. He is very interested, but I think he is worried about finding the right level of firmness... how do I reassure him and make him feel comfortable experimenting with different levels ***? I am made of pretty hardy stuff and have no concerns of my own, I just really want his first experieces to be positive so that he feels free to really let loose and express himself.
I would start at the milder end and make sure you not only remind him that you are enjoying it before and during Read more… play but also afterwards.
He might need reassuring after play that he's not a monster for wanting to inflict *** and reminding that you are enjoying it.
As he gets comfortable you can build up to more intense play.