i started my kink journey properly about December 2019 after joining fetlife at the suggestion of a couple of kinksters on a vanilla dating site . A bit about me i am a bit of a geek i like anime and such thinks im ideally looking for a longterm romantic partnership to explore my kinky side (i am open to poly( although im not interestedin being sexual with women in any shape of form)/enm) and as i am looking to settle down i should state i dont want kids. i also dont drive so i am not interested in people 100s of miles or hours away from me i dont think ldr or a virtual ones dont work for me as my top love languge is physical touch.

I am currently in a dynamic with a a dom ( he is sadist) and have been in this dynamic for a while , ( started playing in person in January 21 after vetting since October 2020) I am keen to keep this dynamic but I am open to other dynamics/relationships (my dom is married happy for me to see others) . not looking for casual/one offs (they dont work for me as im demi), in fact would perfer to date and build to something serious and long-term ( ideally I want my own nesting/anchor partner) .

I'm not a big fan of age gaps being with people 5+ years younger makes me feel like a child snatcher as your brain is only just finished cooking and I just don't see what I would have in common with some 15+ years my senior outside of a teacher/student setting.

Desires and Fantasies
i have a long held fantasy of being in a triad with 2 dominant bi men thanks to a now deleted YouTube role play series lol but I no stable/healthy triads/ thurples are rare so just being in a right princess in a dd/lg dynamic would be great too .

medical, fisting , shock collars, ***, vomit , watersports, anal