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Age 51
Status Not single
Height 194cm
Weight 98kg
Body shape Athletic
Eye colour Blue
Hair length Short
Beard 5 o'clock shadow
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Body hair Some hair
Zodiac sign Cancer
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I sometimes feel I would have liked to be a Victorian governor with responsibility for my ward. Responsible for the care and development of a young lady, but also responsible for her discipline chastisement and deportment. Walking that line between beastly and benevolent, finding that sweet spot of cherishing a sub and yet keeping them in hand. A place of safety of sorts.

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OK what I am really after is someone who will come out into the Welsh Forests with me or skulk around abandoned mine workings and get up to mischief.......... if I told you what mischief it would spoil the suspense

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Urethral sounding
Has anyone tried urethral sounding? I was sent a video by a masochist friend suggesting that it might be a desirable M/f activity she’d like to indulge in but in the interest of sanity and safety I am keen to hear any do’s and dont’s. I can see it is quite an intimate act but seems to carry all manner of medical risks. All advice and opinion gratefully received.
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SugarSS
SugarSS I have tried this a little bit but I just can't really get into it. It just burns too much. I can't find any reliable information to help me get going "training" so I have abandoned my efforts. I have tried this a little bit but I just can't really get into it. It just burns too much. I can't find any reliable information to help me get going "training" so I have abandoned my efforts.
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Gazz81
Gazz81 How do we all go from 1 size up to the next ... I am currently at a snug 11mm there is a slight like pop as it passes the narrowing but not ***ful at all ....... am I ready to try a 12mm and how do I go about getting it to stretch ...... I was thinking constant slight pressure til cock slides on to sounding rod ......
Should it be uncomfortable ???
Stretching How far is too far ?
How do I know if I am ready to move up to next size ? How do we all go from 1 size up to the next ... I am currently at a snug 11mm there is a slight like pop as it passes the narrowing but not ***ful at all ....... am I ready to try a 12mm and how do I go about getting it to stretch ...... I was thinking constant slight pressure til cock slides on to sounding rod ......
Should it be uncomfortable ???
Stretching How far is too far ?
How do I know if I am ready to move up to next size ?
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Deleted profile I'm new to it. I just kinda stumbled on to it, but yeah...I'm hooked!! Safe and sterile....
I'm new to it. I just kinda stumbled on to it, but yeah...I'm hooked!! Safe and sterile....
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Are you curious..?

That made me giggle and I wouldn’t have said I am a giggled, thanks Firewitch!

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Vanilla girl brand new to any and all kinks; where the hell do I start?

Here is where you start, make friends explore questions, share fantasies and find someone to help you grow. I have to say the chatrooms are the warmest I know of.
Another thought is finding your nearest "munch", a place to meet folk in a vanilla setting. It helps to filter the strange ones from Read more… the stranger ones.

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I sometimes feel I would have liked to be a Victorian governor with responsibility for my ward. Responsible for the care and development of a young lady, but also responsible for her discipline chastisement and deportment. Walking that line between beastly and benevolent, finding that sweet spot Read more… of cherishing a sub and yet keeping them in hand. A place of safety of sorts.
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Oh this box is always too hard.... I am practicing being simply me.
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