TLDR: Dom/Switch Seeking F Sub/Switch or Friends
I'm a dominant leaning switch looking for experiences to know myself and help others find or fulfil themselves. I'm seeking kinky dates, cuddle/massage dates, or "let's stroll and let me give you mental support" dates until I find my long-term partner. Friends and mentors are also welcome.
My poem:
"You are a lovely creature who's body is like an instrument. I want to push your limits. I want to make you moan. I want to master you. I want to dominant you physically and mentally. To me it’s about the control and soaking in your experience, the pleasures and ***s. I want to lead you to where you will allow me and take in your energy, those little emotions and sounds that escape. I will always respect the sanctity of your life and your safety."
About me:
I am seeking a partner for LTR with compatible tastes to explore with but don't mind kinky dates in the meantime. For any play involving fluid exchange I'd prefer my partner to match my STI status. I’m sadistic inclined interested in switch, dominating, spanker, nipple play, master/slave, orgasm denial and maybe submission for the right person. But I'm also open to new experiences. As an INFJ I enjoy establishing a deep connection and open communication with my partner. I consider myself a student in all things and seek to know myself.
In conventional dating, I want a partner I can chase and be chased by, and can grow with. I’ve been called intense, but just love immersing myself in my interests and analyzing them. Socially, I prefer a tranquil environment but am adaptive in moments of uncertainty. I love to learn and the best intimacy to me goes beyond the physical.
If it matters I’m also active, food conscious and health conscious. My top love languages are tied for Quality Time, Acts of Service and Physical touch.
If you’d like to explore things with me drop me a message. Friends also welcome.
Solid and well written advice as always MsWhiteRose. Extremely timely too for those seeking cyber arrangements during this social isolation time.
Wow, newbie here but thanks so much for this topic!
Just wanted to show my appreciation. @white_rose , actually I've found all your topics interesting and helpful as I've explored this party my myself. I love how you explore the psychology of it.
I once wrote a poem of what I like about BDSM in Read more… my profile for those interested. Alot of it is devouring those little emotions through the sounds and facial expressions which get released. I don't know why I find this such a "spark" in life. Plus someone follow my leadership is always attractive.
The Sex Explained on Netflix offers some compelling data that the attraction to BDSM helps us as humans balance our ourselves when we have a professional life which ***s us into an undesired role.
@Freddy I happen to be a plant-based vegan in training. Searching for the formula of diet, physical activity and social support to substain a long quality life for myself and those around me. I see alot of appeal in a plant based diet for BDSM. You touched on *** flow but healing properties and performance I think are also part of it.
This is probably my favorite topic ever! 🥰