Impulse or not, hopefully your reaching out brought some peace. Perhaps be easy on the drink in the future, and please continue to post when you need to find help in your thoughts; there are many in your shoes, you are never alone.

I believe both parties, regardless of position in the relationship, in both kink and vanilla, should be seeking to help each other be the best person and team they can be. Each person is a gift to the other and should be treated with respect as an individual, and for what they bring to the other Read more… person. In any relationship, if the sanctity of the bond is broken or the relationship is oppressing in a non- consensual manner, even the most vanilla of relationships will form a bad stereotype bc that is what indeed happened, a toxic relationship was formed. If the dominant or submissive aren't on the same wavelength, they will always be toxic and sterorypical. When talking about the dynamics of a kink relationship, if you emphasize the communication aspect and put it into the context of a vanilla relationship, highlighting the need for communication and respect and how the dynamic builds on the person, most will no longer see the negative stereotype of power control. And if they do, they probably won't perform well in any relationship for not understanding that there should be an equal power balance in any relationship formed, regardless of if one consents to submission to another.

I've not orgasmed but the weight of the water makes me drip cum.

I love nipple orgasms! It's a whole body experience and I can achieve them regularly. I think it is how the indivisible is wired. For me, my nipples have always been a source of great pleasure, and I have the mental mindset for helping the orgasm because I'm aware of how my nipples react to Read more… simulation.

Bliss

A boss I worked for gave the name and it's stuck with me ever since.

Beautiful

I wouldn't recommend staying with a partner if they are trying to tolerate that part of you. I was in a 10yr relationship and he tried to be ok with non-monogomy knowing whom I was with and trusting that person... but ultimately it made trust issues between us and we didn't recover. Be cautious Read more… if you feel he can't accept it, however this is just my experience.