About me
Description
Quiet. Obedient with a touch of sass. I am primarily submissive, but switch curious.
Not a bitch, sissy, or slut. If you ask me to be one then you obviously haven't bothered to read this. I would never serve anyone so careless.
I am a little confused in the BDSM roles and fetishes list below as to what is meant by active and passive. For handcuffs does active mean that I am actively wearing them or actively putting them on someone else? I don't think my interpretation was consistent before I gave up trying to answer all of them.
Desires and Fantasies
I would like to meet the person that I want to spend the rest of my life with. I'm wise enough to know that this takes time and don't expect it to happen right away. As the name says, I am cautious and am hoping to meet someone who doesn't expect me to worship them blindly. I am also open to just making friends and talking.
I would like to try long term chastity, but cannot find a good device that doesn't pinch or squeeze to the point of making my day-to-day life difficult to live. Some people say that a punishing device is the point of chastity. I disagree, at least to the nature of the punishment. My interest in chastity is giving up control of my orgasms, not a constant CBT.
I have one fantasy that I'm beginning to think is the most outlandish and freakish fantasy out there. A woman contacts me and actually acts as if she's read any of my profile.
And I call myself cautious for a reason. I'm not going to just hand out my phone number until I get to know someone. The site's message function - it's like texting for patient people.
Limits
No anal insertions
No bodily fluids
No crossdressing
If you ask me where I'm from then I'll know you didn't bother to read any of this. Why should I then take you seriously?
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- Bondage Body Bags (Passive)
- Bondage
- Bondage Bed (Passive)
- Bondage Belt
- Bondage Cuffs
- Bondage Yoke
- Bondage Rope
- Bondage Sleepsack
- Chains (Active)
- Collar & Leash
- Cuddling
- Edging (Passive)
- Restraints
- Handcuffs
- Humbler
- Kinky Sex (Active)
- Latex Fetish
- Massage (Active)
- Armbinder
- Spanking Paddles (Passive)
- Cock Ring
- Sensory Deprivation (Active)
- Spanking
- Spreader Bar
- Submission (Active)
- Vacuum Beds (Passive)
- Vanilla (Active)
- Straitjackets
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No ‘How was your day, dear?’ but that kiss had reminded him that he had been caged for six days and the promise of early Read more…release kept him from complaining. The rope was new, but after six nights of his wife wanting to snuggle against his caged cock he was willing to try something new if it meant his release.
Anticipation added to his discomfort as he went to their bedroom and undressed. She followed a couple minute’s later in the same casual attire she had on when he had returned home. It was a little disappointing until he realized that a sexy outfit would have probably broken him. She played with the key that she wore around her neck as she eyed him over.
“Good boy,” she cooed when she saw him waiting for her. She gave him another kiss while stroking his cage. He whimpered a bit. “Very good boy,” she added without pulling her lips from his. She gave his balls a playful squeeze, eliciting a gasp from him, before stepping back. “Now let’ get those hands tied.”
He handed her a bundle of rope and crossed his wrists as if this were common practice. It wasn’t until the last knot was tied that it dawned on him that he had allowed it without thinking.
“Come.” She gave a slight jerk on the rope she held guiding him to the foot of their bed. She walked around to the side of the bed before giving another short jerk. “Kneel.” She pulled continuous tautness in the rope as if to draw him onto the bed instead of having him kneel beside it. He did so and she smiled at him. “Very good boy. You’ve earned a treat.” She took off the sweatshirt she had on. She had no underwear beneath it. “Now lean forward,” she passed the rope between two rails in the bed frame, “if you want me completely naked.”
She didn’t wait for a response but gently pulled the rope. It wasn’t difficult, as Matt leaned forward willingly while she did so. When he was resting on his elbows she tied him in place before letting her jeans drop to the floor. She walked around behind him and gave him a playful spank before pushing her hand between his thighs so that she could play with his caged cock some more.
“Spread your legs a little.” She helped guide his knees apart so that she had better access to his cock. “Very good boy.” She started wrapping another rope around his thigh, then his ankle, then tied it off to a post at the foot of the bed.
“You’re getting excited, aren’t you?” She gave his cage another playful tug and giggled a little as his hips tremored and he gave a whimper of frustration.
“Yes,”
“I think ‘Yes, mistress’ is more appropriate,” she said as she started to tie his other leg. “But I am a kind mistress when I have such an obedient slave as you. You are my slave, aren’t you?”
“Yes, mistress.” Matt had to admit he was enjoying this, unusual as it was.
“Good slave. Now you will be rewarded.”
Then something cold and slimy was rubbed around his asshole. He gave a yelp of surprise. ‘What are you…” He looked as best he could to see her buckling some sort of harness around her waist and thighs. “What are you doing?”
She walked around behind him. “For a few months you’ve been telling me you want to try anal.” She leaned against him and he felt something press between his butt cheeks. It slid between them as she rocked slowly. “I finally told you that we could try anal if you would wear a cock cage for a week and you agreed. I decided to give it to you a day early.”
“But I meant I wanted to...”
“Yes,” she interrupted, “but you didn’t actually say that. Anal works both ways and you were just a little too vague about what you wanted.”
“But…”
Helen hugged his waist and gave his balls a squeeze.
“Am I right, slave?” She squeezed a little harder on the word slave.
“Yes, mistress.”
“Good boy.” She straightened up and took hold of his hips. “I promise I’ll be gentle.” She pulled away from him slightly and he could feel the object between his cheeks slide until the end was aligned with his asshole. “I want you to enjoy this,” she told him as she pressed slightly int him.
When Matt had first asked her about anal sex she had no interest in this sort of thing. But he had kept asking. The more he asked the more submissive he seemed and the more dominant she felt, so she had started looking into kink more. She didn’t feel like a cruel type of dominant – she still loved him – but the more he asked, the more she studied, and she had eventually started to buy equipment in secret. So here they were. She actually did hope he enjoyed this. She was starting to hope he enjoyed it enough to let her do it to him again. As his gasps turned to moans, she started to wonder if she could get him enjoying it enough to want to stay locked up for another week…
Day 24
A day of the week
What a puzzle contest does eventually.
“Yes.” John said.
“And why was that, perv?”
“What?”
“Are you truly interested in rehabilitation or do you just wish for a shorter sentence?”
“I want to be rehabilitated,” John said after an unconvincing pause.
‘Very well. I just wanted that for the record. There will be no appeal now.” It was the same cheerful, mechanical voice but the statement had an edge of ominousness to it. “I am to be your warden. You may call me ma’am. Understood?”
“Yes, ma’am.”
‘Your living quarters are fully automated. Meals will come regularly through the dumbwaiter.” The lights dimmed except for around a panel in the wall; to small for him to try and escape through but big enough to allow a tray of food. “When you are through you can dispose of your trash the same way.
“You are allowed two hours of modern entertainment a day.” The lights shifted to a video screen. “I will provide books for you to better yourself so you do not get bored otherwise.
“These both require electricity – as do the lights, the air conditioning, the water pump, the water heater… just about everything you will need to make your stay pleasant. Possibly all you need to survive your sentence.”
The lights shifted again. Now the spotlight was on a sex doll in the corner of the room.
‘This is your generator. You will be responsible for keeping it running. Ten to fif*** minutes every four hours ought to keep it running. If it stops, there is no restarting it.”
Ma’am was probably watching, but she could be watching any time. John unzipped thinking he could get used to this kind of imprisonment. He started going at it with the sex doll.
“Finally, your cell is fitted with chemical detectors. If they detect any trace of semen then the generator will shut down.”
“Wait! What?” John stopped pumping his hips.
“Rehabilitation for sex offenders like you is to make sex a punishment,” Ma’am informed him cheerfully. “Welcome to Cell Block D-nial.”
Day 23
International baccalaureate program
Cyber prefix
Riflery VIP
Slangy negative
Battery component
Cardinal direction
Bad grade
And alternative
Rural parent
Spanish relative
Folksy and
Day 22
Hebrew or Arabic letter
Magnetic flux density
Busy places in hospitals
(Then it's time to customize)
Day 21
American power company
Ordinal direction
Egyptian god
Angular momentum
(You may have to scroll down to find it.)
Day 20
Ninety degrees latitude?
Egyptian life
Elder
Continental legislators
Cardinal direction
Medical administration
Flaccid health problem
Day 19
A Flemming character
An imperial measurement
An indefinite article
A British drink overseas
A cardinal direction
More of an Indigo Montoya than a Zorro. It's really only a problem if you killed my father.
Day 18
In the matter of
URL ending
About half the population
Calculus function
Day 17
A million
American business directory (old school)
Textspeak understanding
French pronoun
Monitor clarity
Day 16
I've given this clue before. This time around, you've just got to show a little more interest.
Day 15
Possessive pronoun
Personal pronoun
Data capacity
Hesitant syllable
Cardinal direction
Pelvis
Day 14
Denial
Old calculator brand
Suffix of causality
Preposition
Moon of Jupiter
Dutch rail service
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