Quiet. Obedient with a touch of sass. I am primarily submissive, but switch curious.
Not a bitch, sissy, or slut. If you ask me to be one then you obviously haven't bothered to read this. I would never serve anyone so careless.
I am a little confused in the BDSM roles and fetishes list below as to what is meant by active and passive. For handcuffs does active mean that I am actively wearing them or actively putting them on someone else? I don't think my interpretation was consistent before I gave up trying to answer all of them.
Desires and Fantasies
I would like to meet the person that I want to spend the rest of my life with. I'm wise enough to know that this takes time and don't expect it to happen right away. As the name says, I am cautious and am hoping to meet someone who doesn't expect me to worship them blindly. I am also open to just making friends and talking.
I would like to try long term chastity, but cannot find a good device that doesn't pinch or squeeze to the point of making my day-to-day life difficult to live. Some people say that a punishing device is the point of chastity. I disagree, at least to the nature of the punishment. My interest in chastity is giving up control of my orgasms, not a constant CBT.
I have one fantasy that I'm beginning to think is the most outlandish and freakish fantasy out there. A woman contacts me and actually acts as if she's read any of my profile.
And I call myself cautious for a reason. I'm not going to just hand out my phone number until I get to know someone. The site's message function - it's like texting for patient people.
Limits
No anal insertions
No bodily fluids
No crossdressing
If you ask me where I'm from then I'll know you didn't bother to read any of this. Why should I then take you seriously?
Day 13
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Does somebody think you are cute?
Perhaps if they're really astute
And their interest you peak
A meeting they'll seek.
Or then again maybe it's fruit.
Day 12
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When playing at kink you my find
A phrase keeps you safe in a bind,
Nor is it absurd
Another safe word
Can give you on-line peace of mind.
Day 11
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Secrets that you may recall,
Events in the past did befall.
Do you freely relate
Or do we interrogate?
It's time that you come and tell all.
Day 10
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A profile written at best
May peak other members' interest.
You can simply
Look up and see
A list of your most recent guests.
Day 9
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What could it be you have done?
Gained the attention of someone.
They didn't, "What's up,"
But gave a thumbs up
To something that seems to them fun.
Yes, I rhymed up with up. I make no apologies.
Day 8
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Whether you're angel or devil,
If in fetish you revel
Get what you deserve
To indulge in your perv-
Depends on your fetish-com level.
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While some dominate with great might
Others enjoy a *** plight.
If perhaps you think
They are into kink
You may tell them about this site.
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Meet face-to-face or by phone.
There's no need for you to be alone.
But it's not a date,
They're only a mate,
And you find yourself in the zone.
Day 5
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For those who have shared interests,
Some even more than the rest.
At the top of your list
Those who shouldn't be missed,
The ones that you do like the best.
Day 4
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Fet com can help you keep track
Of vistors, a complete stack.
The last on your list
Of your voyeurists
Sometimes you've just got to look back.
Day 3
Row 5, column 3
Surely some people have read it,
But it may be time for an edit.
One shouldn't neglect
To properly reflect
Who they are and life's paths they have treaded.
1) I threw a snowball at my state's governor and got away with it.
2) I had a tooth drilled without novocaine.
3) I have kissed Sandra Bullock's foot..
Day 2
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Memories of friends and relations
Or alone for your ego inflation
Or I.D.s for employers
Or gifts for some voyeurs
Or perhaps just artistic creations