About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
- Events & Places
- BDSM Lovers
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- Anal Sex (Active)
- Breath Play (Active)
- Lingerie Fetish
- Domination (Active)
- Threesomes (Active)
- Spandex Fetish
- Extreme Bondage (Active)
- Fingering (Active)
- Foreplay (Active)
- Rubber Fetish
- Rough Sex (Active)
- Humiliation (Active)
- Kinky Sex (Active)
- Kissing (Active)
- Knife Play (Active)
- Patent Leather Fetish
- Latex Fetish
- Leather Fetish
- Massage (Active)
- Masturbation (Active)
- Nipple Play (Active)
- Nylon Fetish
- Oral Sex (Active)
- Polyamory (Active)
- Post Orgasm Torture (Active)
- PVC Fetish
- Shoe Fetish
- Sex at Work (Active)
- Sex at the Movies (Active)
- Sex In Bed (Active)
- Shower Sex (Active)
- Sex Stool (Active)
- Spanking (Active)
- Uniform Fetish
- Vanilla (Active)
- Wax Play (Active)
- Wet Look Clothing
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Issues starting a conversation
Looking for a better approach. 3 years, and have had 5 women respond to my messages. One said she doesn't want a BDSM dynamic now. One said she wants a monogamous relationship (her profile saying ENM/open). 3 other three said hello. Then nothing
I know you ladies get inundated with messages. Read more…How does one get read, and more so, how does one go about to get you to respond to open a dialog? Now if the profile says monogamous; I don't write to the lady. If she has an age range that I am not in; I don't write. If they are looking for vanilla; I don't write. Also if they post what type of political views they want, and I don't align with them; I don't write. Not going to waste someone else's time if I can clearly see that I am not a fit. My profile is open to the fact that I am in a ENM relationship. She is aware and encouraging of it. Not looking for a unicorn, as this is a relationship for me.
This is my typical initial message:
Good morning/afternoon/evening (pending time of day I send it),
I read your profile. I like that you are _____________. That fits well because I am __________. I see you enjoy _______ as well. Would you care to chat? or
I read your profile. I didn't see much written other then you are a sub. What is it that you are looking for? Please take a look at my profile. If we have things in common, would you care to chat?
So basically, I try to find common ground, address it, then ask to conversate.
What can be done to improve chances of getting a response?
I know you ladies get inundated with messages. Read more…How does one get read, and more so, how does one go about to get you to respond to open a dialog? Now if the profile says monogamous; I don't write to the lady. If she has an age range that I am not in; I don't write. If they are looking for vanilla; I don't write. Also if they post what type of political views they want, and I don't align with them; I don't write. Not going to waste someone else's time if I can clearly see that I am not a fit. My profile is open to the fact that I am in a ENM relationship. She is aware and encouraging of it. Not looking for a unicorn, as this is a relationship for me.
This is my typical initial message:
Good morning/afternoon/evening (pending time of day I send it),
I read your profile. I like that you are _____________. That fits well because I am __________. I see you enjoy _______ as well. Would you care to chat? or
I read your profile. I didn't see much written other then you are a sub. What is it that you are looking for? Please take a look at my profile. If we have things in common, would you care to chat?
So basically, I try to find common ground, address it, then ask to conversate.
What can be done to improve chances of getting a response?
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AGhostinLifeandLove ➦AGhostinLifeandLove quote Tim2022:❝I'm probably the one to blame here but I nearly always go through the bio and pictures to try and find something that shows i did read and I am keen to get to know a woman not just screw around and ghost her. 99% of the time I get 0 response, my virtual rizz is Read more… beyond sub par so perhaps this is also on me and not being a native English speaker. But shit can be rough on dating apps.
More than open to any criticism or input from anyone, after all we are all looking for our own slice of happiness here.❞
If i told you have many app for dating,fetidh swinger,hook up, bbws and kink apps on the play store i used all that had a rating of 3.4 or higher thats alot of apps and i got one date on pof but it should be called plenty of catfish she was 6.2 and had three teeth and looked more like freddy jackson instead of janet .
But my averge over six mths 1 date i catfish .one girl who wanted me to play capt sav a hoe and rescue uber taxithat went nowhere.My dad allways used to say Women get what they want..Men get what we can!
my rizz is rizzless Im a social piranha.
My wife can get 15 guys at a time trying to get her to f**k them but for six mnts i sat at home no date .
As i watch the wife go out every other night and Saturday and now Sunday .
i can't get a date or noone messages me on any apps ,and that does get to us as you are like why the hell am i doi g that i cant get one girl.
More than open to any criticism or input from anyone, after all we are all looking for our own slice of happiness here.❞
If i told you have many app for dating,fetidh swinger,hook up, bbws and kink apps on the play store i used all that had a rating of 3.4 or higher thats alot of apps and i got one date on pof but it should be called plenty of catfish she was 6.2 and had three teeth and looked more like freddy jackson instead of janet .
But my averge over six mths 1 date i catfish .one girl who wanted me to play capt sav a hoe and rescue uber taxithat went nowhere.My dad allways used to say Women get what they want..Men get what we can!
my rizz is rizzless Im a social piranha.
My wife can get 15 guys at a time trying to get her to f**k them but for six mnts i sat at home no date .
As i watch the wife go out every other night and Saturday and now Sunday .
i can't get a date or noone messages me on any apps ,and that does get to us as you are like why the hell am i doi g that i cant get one girl.
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· 06.06.2024 5:34:20
Tim2022 I'm probably the one to blame here but I nearly always go through the bio and pictures to try and find something that shows i did read and I am keen to get to know a woman not just screw around and ghost her. 99% of the time I get 0 response, my virtual rizz is beyond sub par so perhaps this is Read more… also on me and not being a native English speaker. But shit can be rough on dating apps.
More than open to any criticism or input from anyone, after all we are all looking for our own slice of happiness here.
More than open to any criticism or input from anyone, after all we are all looking for our own slice of happiness here.
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· 05.06.2024 22:55:26
TransMan2016 @adrenalina75 well I Personally Rather be Asked but Ur NOT Like That … that Ur Prerogative 💯 @adrenalina75 well I Personally Rather be Asked but Ur NOT Like That … that Ur Prerogative 💯
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· 01.06.2024 13:27:48
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