I am looking for social and romantic connections.
Socially, I am hoping to learn and generally expand my circle. Romantically, I am hoping to build something with a patient and affectionate domme.
While I am generally submissive, and have no pretext of being a leader, I am open to being a caretaker.
Naturally affectionate, generally submissive. I want to give and receive comfort.
Regardless of the relationship/dynamic, I would hope that we both get stronger as we grew closer.
Limits: intentional/unreasonable and excretions.
Limits: intentional/unreasonable and excretions.
Interested in movies, philosophy, art, writing, reading.
And, yes, I know that my screen-name is arguably misleading. It is a call back to another (fairly anodyne) point in my life.
Relationships start with conversations and friendships. I hope to build those here.
and deliberate mess. and intentional harm. others as we clarify.
If dommes are hiding, that actually makes it harder for subs to find them (unless the dommes are being exceptionally pro-active in their searches).
Hiding/disguising seems to defeat the purpose of being online, particularly with social media.
Financial dominance is a significant enough thing. I have been surprised at how common it is, and simply as a euphemism for illegal transactions.
Anyone searching for a domme has blundered across it, probably recently.
I see worse on FaceBook, on a regular basis.
(But, discussion of sex toys is okay? It is, especially here. But, the swear filter is bonkers.)
Back on topic: some of the dispute seems to be a mismatch between what people on both sides of the equation want. (Degrees of control or ***, etc.)
One Read more… thing that strikes me as odd about financial dominance is that the sub pays for the right to work, rather than being paid for their labor.
Why is that specific word filtered? (I mean, really, in this forum of all places?)
Joking aside, following for discussion.
Merry Christmas.
For some people, today (day 24 of the scavenger hunt) is the best day, a favorite day.
I admit defeat on day 12.
There is something I am missing.
I admit, I am stuck on the day 12 clue.
I admit, I am lost on day 12 clue.