Why a fake cock? Why not a real one? Why not mfm? Nice writing, though.

It's part of the vetting process. When I am looking for someone, I let them know that I want a relationship. I'm not looking for just a play partner (which is what I'm understanding you want, though I could be wrong).
I am very direct in my communication, which quite frankly could be my Domme. But Read more… I find it useful to say I expect a, b, and c and will not tolerate x, y, and z. And have the communication early.
Then when someone doesn't work out, it's less time wasted in my end.

Find a secluded place so that you don't accidentally have to explain why you are taking nudes, lol. Or, you can pay to rent an area and tell them you're doing that, but that gets pricey.
Start small, like your backyard and at night, and then get more inventive. There may also be nude beaches near Read more… where you live, and that is an option.
The boudoir idea is all about how the pose is done and less about location. The theme when you look at those pictures is that, on the whole, they are a tease. Sure, the model is fully nude, but there is really nothing showing most of the time. Maybe a nipple peaks out. But mostly, everything is covered, and technically, it could be shown on TV.
With that in mind, think props. Something like a chair in the back yard, or a well placed glass covers a lot. At the beach-plenty to play with, from shells to balls to furniture and umbrellas, the fun us in the creativity you bring.

I find that when you can be open and honest with all of your partners, it works incredibly well. BDSM allows you to delve into the desires of your sexuality on a basis of kinks but also trust. Polyamory allows you to find fulfillment in your relationships that one partner may not be able to Read more… provide, but another can.
For those who are new or unsure of how it could possibly work, I explain it like having siblings or friends. You love them, one doesn't replace the other. Do you love them differently? Of course, because they ate different people. Buy we have the capacity to love in a romantic way more than one person without betraying the romantic love of another.
It took me a long time to accept this part of who I am. And I understand how it might take others a long time as well.