I've just removed a load of comments that were completely innappropriate to this thread - please keep to the topic being discussed.

No probs

No, it was just awaiting approval

I'm letting this one run for now in the hope that it is a genuine call for advice -

You're absolutely right that free s***ch comes with responsibility. Here, that responsibility includes respecting the rules of engagement. If a post doesn’t break site guidelines then it will be approved. The expectation is to either engage constructively or follow the 'scroll and roll' principle. Read more… Let’s keep it civil and on track.
Of course, if you choose not to comply with a FETMOD, then there is another option..........

Play nice please. It was written and the post was approved. The OP is entitled to write what he wants. If you don’t like it, scroll and roll!

Well someone certainly does - Which I have actioned as requested!!
Lets keep this thread for advice to the OP

We’ve not had one of these posts for a while so I’m letting this one run. Keep it respectful and provide helpful advice please.

I think this topic has run its course so I’m locking it before it gets out of hand.

Certain words are automatically blocked by the site

I think it's time for this thread to be locked.

We don’t kink shame here. Whatever your beliefs. We do not disrespect people’s identities.

Ok That’s enough!
Let’s get back to the topic and l focus on the bigger problem rather than attacking each other’s suggestions.

This is the second time FETMOD have had to step in and remove comments from this thread. Points have been issued where necessary. Keep to the original topic please and stop the trolling and personal attacks.

Well Said!
It seems a few people in this thread need to heed this advice - Lets stop the nastiness please!