About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
Description
Hi I’m a mature guy looking for a mature female friend to have fun with and develop a Domme/sub relationship. I'd like to explore with a kindred spirit. Someone who is kinky but dosent let it define them. Someone who can be lustful and mindful. Strict, controlling and caring...happy with themselves and their contradictions...
Desires and Fantasies
I enjoy chastity and being spanked. Never been pegged - wonder what it would be like. Be your slave for the day?
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
Wanna know what interests me?:
Fetish.com gives you…
Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Milton Keynes with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!
it would be good to have this menu on the home page with links. Thanks
That is true - thank you for sharing your situation and experience.
Thanks everyone for your responses. Food for thought!
I've read a few comments recently in letters from Dominants in Madame (the now defunct 1980s Fem Dom publication published by Swish) about young Dommes wanting to dominate an older man. As an older man myself (61) I wonder if this is true or just fantasy. When looking for a partner I tend Read more…to think of looking for women my own age as I think the relationship has more likelihood of developing longer term. I often see 'age and gender not an issue' for Pro Dommes. What do Mistresses here honestly think? Have you had a partner older than you? If so, did it work out? What were the pros and cons?
Thanks in advance - look forward to receiving your thoughts!
When it does come to, well, kink in general - almost everything we've been taught about relationships goes out the window.
So, it depends on the type of relationship you want. Whether it's a typical romantic relationship, with an element of kink - or a D/s Read more… relationship which may not be sexual* or romantic (*depending on where you draw the line at sexual - I can't do PIV with my Mistress, but She will do strap on with me and has done other deemed sexual acts)
But, in saying this... even in traditional style vanilla relationships - sometimes these occur with people with an age gap. Sometimes there are people who look for older partners, sometimes those who seek younger, sometimes those who want someone around-their-age. And that logic does carry through also.
And while some people do have preferences (a Pro I know won't take a session request from anyone aged below 21 and won't consider any form of ownership relationship with anyone under the age of 30, based on what she would want from these relationships) I don't feel there is a universal rule or trend.
Some things do get a little jaded because, for example, if you watch BDSM pornography the guys are often older. The reason for that is many fold, but a lot can come down to less consequences of being recognised, more experience and, well, if you're retired with a railcard it's a bit easier to get to a Tuesday shoot at short notice...
Try using a little deep heat treatment on his cock or have him just sit there and do nothing for a while with no stimulation.
No, not wrong. Not had it myself but looks fun.
Great advice. I’ve found building confidence comes by taking action and not listening to the voice in your head that says ‘you can’t do it’ ‘it won’t work’ and ‘your not good enough’.
Good post. I had an incident a bit like this on another site. Someone claiming to be a woman approached me as a Mistress, demanded I cancel my membership and talk via email.i did this as a sign of my commitment. She sent me some really hot emails and I was enthralled by the dominant tone and strict Read more… instructions. This person knew about fem Dom.However small things didn’t quite stack up. Firstly their profile said they were in Colchester but an email later said south London. The profile picture didn’t match the video they sent me. The video showed a sensuous young woman which seemed at odds with the email.Then they asked me to join a session with them and their other female slave. Would I pay to have my name embroidered on my Mistresses slaves panties and my Mistresses name embroidered on my panties. £100.00 should cover it. Can I pay now? Call this number. I requested that we meet and have a coffee first but then heard nothing. This was strange given what they had promised me, to become their dedicated slave. A few weeks past and I got a ‘how are you?’email asking if I was ready to play by their rules’. The moral of this story for me is trust but take precautions. Self identifying as a submissive doesn’t mean you can’t establish clear ground rules for any relationship.
Hi there it’s not obvious how to improve your profile or get more interest from females. A little helping hand would be great.
I want to attend a munch or two and meet some great people :-)
I liked your article Molly. Great advice and non judgemental. Thanks
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