@spooky_boo honestly this isn't on you. A lot of people have different thoughts on what a sub is and define it differently. Some prefer to be possesiv over subs, some just like shy people that take a while. Some love to verbally *** subs but forget to ask them if they even like that. Honestly when Read more… you tell them what you like and dislike and they blatantly ignore it, don't mind them and don't waste your time on them. If you can't enjoy it and be who you wanna be, what's the point in submitting. The whole idea is that you willingly submit to someone or consensual non-consent if you are into that. But even if, talk about it and make yourself heard. Be it a sub, a Dom or switch or something entirely else: talk and then play, before you do something the other person won't like. And don't *** something on them and don't feel ***d to do what someone else demands, if you don't feel comfortable with it 🙂