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This is very close to the dynamics of my situation. Thank you very much for the feedback. Life is fickle and it’s good to leave precarious situations well enough alone.
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Thank you all for your informative responses. I do want to sustain a friendship with her, yet I cannot help wanting more at this point. She has discussed me with her Dom extensively, apparently. There were some options set forth between them that they would allow me in their relationship. Read more… Mainly, I would become a pawn in their sex play as a sub. He is bisexual, I am not and not open to same sex advances. The fact that she is advocating for my role in her life leads me to believe that our feelings are mutual. I’m poly and I am not threatened by her Dom/sub relationship. Has anyone went against their core values to become closer to their love interest?
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I recently started a friendship with a woman who later revealed to me she had a dom. We developed strong feelings for each other but her Dom won’t allow her to have a relationship outside of theirs. Even though he is married to someone else. Should I stop seeing her? Or should I maintain a relationship in hopes of her wanting me more?
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Deleted profile There has already been several great responses by wise people here so hopefully this has helped and given you some perspective on your difficult situation.
I would simply add that I know that maintaining a friendship with someone you have feelings for
is very difficult and taxing on yourself. Read more… However if you do enjoy and value your friendship with her I would say it can be done and I currently have a friend who I had feelings for in the past. She was in a rocky place with her relationship and had shown signs of being interested in me which of course made my feelings grow as part of me felt like in time we could be together. Of course I did consider the idea of distancing myself or ending the friendship aswell.
However I reached a point where I realised I was doing no one any good by hanging onto a fantasy and so decided to stop thinking about the "what if's".
I focused on the idea of her being off limits and although it was tough my romantic feelings did fade and in their place came a strong appreciation and care for her as a friend.
I can honestly say I am so glad I did that as she has been a wonderful friend and has supported me through a lot and I have done the same for her.
All in all it is your decision and unfortunately it's going to be tough either way. However i do think you shouldn't hang on and hope she decides she wants you instead I feel you should choose to remain friends as you want to be her friend or decide to step away from the situation.
Either way no one knows exactly what will happen and there may be something even better for you round the corner. Best of luck
I would simply add that I know that maintaining a friendship with someone you have feelings for
is very difficult and taxing on yourself. Read more… However if you do enjoy and value your friendship with her I would say it can be done and I currently have a friend who I had feelings for in the past. She was in a rocky place with her relationship and had shown signs of being interested in me which of course made my feelings grow as part of me felt like in time we could be together. Of course I did consider the idea of distancing myself or ending the friendship aswell.
However I reached a point where I realised I was doing no one any good by hanging onto a fantasy and so decided to stop thinking about the "what if's".
I focused on the idea of her being off limits and although it was tough my romantic feelings did fade and in their place came a strong appreciation and care for her as a friend.
I can honestly say I am so glad I did that as she has been a wonderful friend and has supported me through a lot and I have done the same for her.
All in all it is your decision and unfortunately it's going to be tough either way. However i do think you shouldn't hang on and hope she decides she wants you instead I feel you should choose to remain friends as you want to be her friend or decide to step away from the situation.
Either way no one knows exactly what will happen and there may be something even better for you round the corner. Best of luck
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13.10.2020 9:43:11
Metalsinbox @Jay57-1962
Being the terrible pirate that i am I say-
Take her.
Plunder his neglected riches.
Take her as your crew and show her some love.
@Jay57-1962
Being the terrible pirate that i am I say-
Take her.
Plunder his neglected riches.
Take her as your crew and show her some love.
Being the terrible pirate that i am I say-
Take her.
Plunder his neglected riches.
Take her as your crew and show her some love.
@Jay57-1962
Being the terrible pirate that i am I say-
Take her.
Plunder his neglected riches.
Take her as your crew and show her some love.
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· 13.10.2020 7:56:25
Thebian I have gone against everything my previously held core values would have made me believe I would do.
Was it wrong in my eyes? Maybe, but I can live with it and so could they.
Would I do it again? If I felt the same and in the same situation totally Read more… I would.
Why did I? We were in love. I told her Master this (who had about 3 other girls and little time for any of them, this.) I also informed him as he was putting her up for a Temporary auction I would her and he would lose her. I advised him to show her more attention, respectfully, and not auction her off.
What happened? He auctioned her off, I bought her and set her free, then I won her submission. We were together for just under a couple of years.
Was it terrible? You decide.
Follow your heart it is her Dominant. She serves him and not you.
Good luck
Was it wrong in my eyes? Maybe, but I can live with it and so could they.
Would I do it again? If I felt the same and in the same situation totally Read more… I would.
Why did I? We were in love. I told her Master this (who had about 3 other girls and little time for any of them, this.) I also informed him as he was putting her up for a Temporary auction I would her and he would lose her. I advised him to show her more attention, respectfully, and not auction her off.
What happened? He auctioned her off, I bought her and set her free, then I won her submission. We were together for just under a couple of years.
Was it terrible? You decide.
Follow your heart it is her Dominant. She serves him and not you.
Good luck
LikeAranhis, Metalsinbox
· 13.10.2020 1:37:41
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