Not a problem @DarkerShadow !
I agree about point C but to be honest thats just how you make your brain chemicals work in your favor. Humans are still ***s after all and unfortunately therefore not super hard to train lol

Pretty much what lazypiratesbounty said. Also, you can absolutely be a sub without being outright degraded, so it's not something you necessarily need to get over if you don't want to. A Dom can speak to you as a treasure he keeps.
As for certain actions you perceive to be degrading, there are a Read more… few things you can do:
A) Try to shift your mindset. Focus on it from a point of service. It's not something degrading for you, but a useful skill; a kind thing you can do for your Dom. Remember, you don't HAVE to submit to this person. You don't HAVE to give them blowjobs, but you are CHOOSING to. They are lucky to have you.
B) This should probably be "A)" but every D/s relationship should be deeply discussed. Sit down with your Dom and talk about things he likes to do or say and figure out how you feel about it, and whether or not you want to make it a goal to change your perspective. Also, this will definitely give your Dom some insight into what you don't like in general. They can be prepared for if something they do causes an emotional reaction. You can both also form a plan for what to do if they upset you during play. Communication goes both ways. Just make sure to let them know what you're feeling and if they aren't a shitheel, they'll support you all the way.
C) After that, you can work with your Dom to help shift any views you would no longer like to hold. They can heavily praise you for doing activities you don't like but would like to like, they can have you associate the activities with pleasure (for example having you orgasm while giving them a blowjob), and they can give you a big reward for going through things you currently dislike.
D) take some time to really meditate on why you feel the way you do about certain things. You can try to free yourself of the negative associations of certain actions or words. Why do you view blowjobs as degrading? What aspects of them could you try to view in a different light?
As for my qualifications, I'm a female sub who has severe depression and was been molested by an older cousin for several years. I thoroughly enjoy being used and degraded. Even though my brain tells me constantly that I truly am worthless, in sub space, I know that this isn't true, no matter what my Dom says. They're putting a lot of work into me and want me to service them, so I know that I have worth. That I'm valued. Pleasing my master is one of my favorite things to do.
I hope this helps! And I hope you get to have lots of kinky fun! ♥️