So I'm very new to alot of this in practice but have had my limited share of experiences that have me wanting more. Call me hedonistic but I'm ready to be selfish and explore my sexuality more and I'm so tired of repressing it! I have a super timid vanilla husband who will not help explore new
Read more…kinks due to lack of self confidence. I build this man up constantly but it's SUPER frustrating that he just doesn't click with his own sexuality and doesn't embrace passion. (He's working in therapy). What are some resources I can give him to help open himself up? I'm not asking him to spontaneously spawn into a new personality as I've told him I accept him as a person no matter what but he needs to love, accept and understand himself first and foremost. He doesn't seem to want to do this. We're currently trying mutual separation so we can gather out respective thoughts. I'm between a rock and a hard place. I want this to work because I love him (and baby daddy) but I feel like he is completely denying part of me and more importantly himself. He's also vehemently against an open relationship even with established boundaries. Advice and support resources are greatly appreciated. Thank you! ❤🙏
There'll be a reason he doesn't like himself - hopefully therapy will bring this to the surface so he can deal with it. He may have had a bad sexual experience; a real heart break of a relationship ending - anything. Wishing you luck.