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- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
Description
I an a submissive who has served on and off for six years. I am transitioning fron female to male currently. If you are into Gorean, that's a plus.
Desires and Fantasies
Being stalked, interrogation scenes, water ***, age play..
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Attraction
Someone who accepts me for me and doesn't try to change me.
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Trans experience in BDSM. (Need help)
I think I would not be happy. Being a naturally submissive person, getting purpose from serving and having it be part of my identity..if I transitioned and felt like I lost that..in having to search for so long..I would feel very depressed.
Trans experience in BDSM. (Need help)
For the last 5 years I have halted my transition of being female to male so I could give all the straight Masters I've served what they wanted; a girl. I am currently doing this and have been told things like, "I will keep you around until I find someone else" or "I will have you serve me until you Read more…start hormones." I understand that my Masters were straight and they don't want a male sub obviously, but these still hurt to hear.
My sense of worth is dictated by what my Master says and thinks of me and I don't know what I should do. I feel like if I fully transition, I will have to give up BDSM. I have never met a gay or bi Master. I wonder if there is a life for me..serving a Master who is okay with me being trans. Are these types out there?
My sense of worth is dictated by what my Master says and thinks of me and I don't know what I should do. I feel like if I fully transition, I will have to give up BDSM. I have never met a gay or bi Master. I wonder if there is a life for me..serving a Master who is okay with me being trans. Are these types out there?
Ksub94 ➦Ksub94 quote foxfun2015:❝I have someone I care about in the same position as you. it’s easy to say there are gay Dom’s out there but to be realistic there are far more male subs already male and with working parts there are far more strait Masters after female subs, you have to decide what is more Read more… important in your life. it’s easy to say a good Dom /Master should accept you as you want to be but have they offered to take you on. Would you rather be a Big Fish in a very small pool or a tiny fish in the ocean the only way I have seen it work is in a dominant role. The crux of the problem is that Dom’s / Masters are humans and have an ideal of what they want just like you and me . Your choice is to transition and risk never finding the right Master or continue as you are trying to find someone who will accept your transition. Thinking back would you have been happier if you had transitioned and then spent 5 years looking for a master or had to pay to keep one❞
I think I would not be happy. Being a naturally submissive person, getting purpose from serving and having it be part of my identity..if I transitioned and felt like I lost that..in having to search for so long..I would feel very depressed.
I think I would not be happy. Being a naturally submissive person, getting purpose from serving and having it be part of my identity..if I transitioned and felt like I lost that..in having to search for so long..I would feel very depressed.
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· 18.09.2020 4:55:40
foxfun2015 I have someone I care about in the same position as you. it’s easy to say there are gay Dom’s out there but to be realistic there are far more male subs already male and with working parts there are far more strait Masters after female subs, you have to decide what is more important in your life. Read more… it’s easy to say a good Dom /Master should accept you as you want to be but have they offered to take you on. Would you rather be a Big Fish in a very small pool or a tiny fish in the ocean the only way I have seen it work is in a dominant role. The crux of the problem is that Dom’s / Masters are humans and have an ideal of what they want just like you and me . Your choice is to transition and risk never finding the right Master or continue as you are trying to find someone who will accept your transition. Thinking back would you have been happier if you had transitioned and then spent 5 years looking for a master or had to pay to keep one
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· 18.09.2020 3:11:38
Deleted profile Hi , you seem to have encountered some insensitive idiots. Doms or Dommes who take their role seriously will be looking to nurture and develop you not make you feel bad.
I know a guy who transitioned to fem in her late 60s and had a master who helped and supported during the transition. In her case he looked after her as a guy moving to gem. Don’t give up hope but possibly look for a new master. There definitely are both gay and bi masters out there.
All best luck Hi , you seem to have encountered some insensitive idiots. Doms or Dommes who take their role seriously will be looking to nurture and develop you not make you feel bad.
I know a guy who transitioned to fem in her late 60s and had a master who helped and supported during the transition. In her case he looked after her as a guy moving to gem. Don’t give up hope but possibly look for a new master. There definitely are both gay and bi masters out there.
All best luck
I know a guy who transitioned to fem in her late 60s and had a master who helped and supported during the transition. In her case he looked after her as a guy moving to gem. Don’t give up hope but possibly look for a new master. There definitely are both gay and bi masters out there.
All best luck Hi , you seem to have encountered some insensitive idiots. Doms or Dommes who take their role seriously will be looking to nurture and develop you not make you feel bad.
I know a guy who transitioned to fem in her late 60s and had a master who helped and supported during the transition. In her case he looked after her as a guy moving to gem. Don’t give up hope but possibly look for a new master. There definitely are both gay and bi masters out there.
All best luck
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17.09.2020 16:15:04
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