It seems a lot of men here are disrespectful to their female partners. As long as those machos can cum and the rest doesn’t matter. Call me old fashioned, call me stupid, but it feels like we are still living in the stone ages reading this. Wow, is love between partners really become that abstract? Read more… ……. (Maybe i am starting to get off topic here)

Sex should be special between people and that can be f/m, m/m, f/f. And in every combination it can be bad sex. Also lots of couples are experiencing vanilla sex to get boring eventually. Bsdm is a nice addition which can lead to variation and better sex/ better orgasm.

Bad sex is definitely there, also from a male point of few. Bad pre-play will result in vanilla (boring) sex or even bad sex. When both get aroused it will become perfect. Just my 2%

And effectually, the dominant is not really in control, the sub is. A dominant has a very high responsibility towards the sub and the sub needs to have absolute trust in the dominant to make this work.