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I will definitely tell him if it ends up not being enjoyable for sure! Thanks again!
Wow. I love this. This is the kind of advice I've been looking for. Thank you Mswhiterose!! I definitely feel like I could turn the tables a little (as in pulling out my inner brat) in a situation. I love that idea.... I love everything you said. Thank you so much for the advice!!
"Service top" will be looking into that. I love your idea and will definitely bring that up to him! I think he would love that. "Take his lead on activities to learn or try" I love that and im thankful for your pointers! I do believe the more I try things that are more assertive, the more Read more… comfortable I will be. Thank you so much!
I love your idea to try and be more assertive in general! Great idea! Not a switch or not, I appreciate your feedback! Thank you
He never asked me to switch rolls, he was explaining what he wanted to try. We were sharing with eachother. He's still extremely new to everything as well. We both have never been with someone who was excited and curious about this kind of sexual experience. So we both feel excited to try new Read more… things and have new experiences.
So top is more my s***d? Perfect! Do you have nlany ideas on how to start exploring as a top? I will need to look into being a "top" more because I'm not 100% sure what that involves but I'm excited to do so.
And I wouldn't say I'm not "made" for being dominant....i think I've never tried and I am NEW to the whole thing....so I'm going to at least start from the bottom, which I've been a submissive, no other place to start!
And I'm I am on this awesome page because I could Google till I'm blue in the face but I wanted to talk directly with people who are passionate about this stuff! I was looking for other people who share some of my same interests and for some encouragement in starting something newish and developing my kinks and learning how to safely, sexually explore with my partner.
I will definitely try and contact some people on here for some pointers.
Thank you so much!! I appreciate your feedback immensely!!
He has been EXTREMELY respectful toward me. He has never expected me to do anything I'm uncomfortable with. He has said this over and over. He also said that if I'm not into it and don't enjoy it we don't have to do it. He has even said he doesn't need it to feel sexually satisfied. It's just a Read more… fantasy that he has wanted to try, and I was wanting to explore it as well.
Start small and see how you get on. It should be fun for you and I'm sure he'll like it too.
And if it really doesn't feel like fun when you've tried some of this, just tell him that domination isn't your thing. ❞
I will definitely tell him if it ends up not being enjoyable for sure! Thanks again! ➦Learningtobeamiss quote Deleted profile:❝Great. Happy to have helped.
Start small and see how you get on. It should be fun for you and I'm sure he'll like it too.
And if it really doesn't feel like fun when you've tried some of this, just tell him that domination isn't your thing. ❞
I will definitely tell him if it ends up not being enjoyable for sure! Thanks again!
Great. Happy to have helped.
Start small and see how you get on. It should be fun for you and I'm sure he'll like it too.
And if it really doesn't feel like fun when you've tried some of this, just tell him that domination isn't your thing.
Start thinking of yourself as a Goddess. Tell him to fetch things for you. Make you tea/coffee. Tell him he's not worthy of sitting on the couch with you and make him sit at your feet. None of this has to be done in an aggressive way so don't feel you have to act a part.
Read up about foot worship, too, and have him start with that.
Then look up Femdom porn if you really want to go headlong into the delights of Female Domination and Male Submission. But don't rush. Only do what you're comfortable with. It has to come naturally from within you, though it will feel a little ***d at first. ❞
Wow. I love this. This is the kind of advice I've been looking for. Thank you Mswhiterose!! I definitely feel like I could turn the tables a little (as in pulling out my inner brat) in a situation. I love that idea.... I love everything you said. Thank you so much for the advice!!