The new bottoming book or the new topping book by Dossie Easton are books I recommend to clients who are confused about where they fit into things but want to try things out

Most doctors won’t do it because they would like the hormone replacement therapy done with it. Other than that. No reason

So this just made me not know whether to clap or cry or how to feel. As a person who just got out of that bad relationship scenario only a few months ago, and feeling like they were owned from the start, I can say I miss the days where a person dated and tried.
Maybe I am showing my age but I Read more… don’t look my age so I don’t care. People go on one date and then “we are exclusive”. Hell before we left our date he changed his profile to in a relationship and dom to.. it can be overwhelming to a submissive, much less anyone who is trying to like a person and date someone they like all without upsetting this new situation.
In reality it took me 6 full weeks to finally convince myself to leave and break things off because I didn’t want to hurt anyone, yet it was ok to be miserable. I felt collared yet we were in what I was used to being a dating phase in the past.
When did the world, when did we stop trying? Is it old versus new? I mean with mine it was a fake/new dom versus someone who actually has a background in working in a field with this stuff.
Thank you for this post. Gave me hope. I had just said tonight I was going back to being alone actually, I’ll keep an open mind, maybe

If you do not communicate, the relationship is not going to work, with kink or without. Communication is the most important thing. Negotiations are important as well. It sounds like you were told to only meet his needs and not your own. A D/s relationship is 50/50. It should always been looked at Read more… and negotiated. If you both love one another you should communicate, negotiate and talk. Even if that means getting outside help, and yes there are therapists for this. You cannot stay in something where you are miserable, sad or deprived of your needs. You do deserve happiness.