I have just ended things with my Dom, he too was new to a Dom/Sub dynamic. The communication was there, he just lied to me. Turns out he had been meeting with other women for vanilla sex throughout. Vanilla. Pffft. I truly thought I was giving him everything he needed. In hindsight, I don't think Read more… he understood what I needed from him to have that connection. It's early days so I'm still hurt and humiliated (not in the good way), but it's his loss. I know how you are feeling and would perhaps break away. Submissives and masters need really good communication.