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Thanks for all the advice everyone 
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How to explain
So I tried telling my partner what I want during sex because vanilla sex just isn't doing it for me anymore.
I suffer from general anxiety and vanilla sex isn't enough for me to stop being anxious and actually enjoy sex, I just end up tense, in *** and in tears afterwards feeling like a used Read more…tissue.
I told him I wanted him to be rough and a bit ***ful and use a little bit of ***... He equated this to, "so you want me to *** you".
That's not at all what I want, I don't have a *** fetish and I just... It upset me that that's what he thinks I want/meant...
Any tips of explaining things to him? Because he thinks "you just have sex", but I need more...
I suffer from general anxiety and vanilla sex isn't enough for me to stop being anxious and actually enjoy sex, I just end up tense, in *** and in tears afterwards feeling like a used Read more…tissue.
I told him I wanted him to be rough and a bit ***ful and use a little bit of ***... He equated this to, "so you want me to *** you".
That's not at all what I want, I don't have a *** fetish and I just... It upset me that that's what he thinks I want/meant...
Any tips of explaining things to him? Because he thinks "you just have sex", but I need more...
FoxRevontulet Try a different angle. A short story or excerpt. You don't want ***, u want feisty passion. Sex so eager half the clothes didnt come off because he wanted to be within you. Thrusting harder and pinning you trying to reach deeper pleasure spots and make you feel deeply desired and wanted. I'm always Read more… mortified when a guy wants to go down on me even through I enjoy the feelings I'm embraced. But if they want it and they are shoving my legs apart and growling out a command to stay still and let them then I know they are doing it because they want to do it and that makes me feel desired and get over the shy factor
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· 09.05.2020 1:57:17
Natkinns Thanks for all the advice everyone :) Thanks for all the advice everyone :)
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· 23.04.2020 13:30:49
WolfeWitche ➦WolfeWitche quote Natkinns:❝So I tried telling my partner what I want during sex because vanilla sex just isn't doing it for me anymore.
I suffer from general anxiety and vanilla sex isn't enough for me to stop being anxious and actually enjoy sex, I just end up tense, in *** and in tears Read more… afterwards feeling like a used tissue.
I told him I wanted him to be rough and a bit ***ful and use a little bit of ***... He equated this to, "so you want me to *** you".
That's not at all what I want, I don't have a *** fetish and I just... It upset me that that's what he thinks I want/meant...
Any tips of explaining things to him? Because he thinks "you just have sex", but I need more... ❞
Maybe write down the stuff you wanna do? Describe how you see it happening, tell him a story.
In his defence "rough, ***ful sex with some ***" could suggest *** play. How did he react? Was he shocked? Up for giving it a go?
You've opened this up, carry on talking to him. You know what you want, he doesn't, so you gotta tell him.
I suffer from general anxiety and vanilla sex isn't enough for me to stop being anxious and actually enjoy sex, I just end up tense, in *** and in tears Read more… afterwards feeling like a used tissue.
I told him I wanted him to be rough and a bit ***ful and use a little bit of ***... He equated this to, "so you want me to *** you".
That's not at all what I want, I don't have a *** fetish and I just... It upset me that that's what he thinks I want/meant...
Any tips of explaining things to him? Because he thinks "you just have sex", but I need more... ❞
Maybe write down the stuff you wanna do? Describe how you see it happening, tell him a story.
In his defence "rough, ***ful sex with some ***" could suggest *** play. How did he react? Was he shocked? Up for giving it a go?
You've opened this up, carry on talking to him. You know what you want, he doesn't, so you gotta tell him.
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· 22.04.2020 11:42:26
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How do I know?
Hi, very new here...
Trying to figure out if bdsm is something I'd like to try with my partner...
How did you know it was something you'd like? How do you learn when there's so much information out there? Where do I start?
Im so embarrassed to be asking these things but I've not been enjoying sex for a while now and the last time I can remember enjoying it was when it was rough and a little ***ful...
Trying to figure out if bdsm is something I'd like to try with my partner...
How did you know it was something you'd like? How do you learn when there's so much information out there? Where do I start?
Im so embarrassed to be asking these things but I've not been enjoying sex for a while now and the last time I can remember enjoying it was when it was rough and a little ***ful...
Deleted profile Maybe try a few beginner books to learn about dynamics and the foundation of bdsm, then think of the types of things that get you going what fantasies you have introduce simple easy to use things to the bedroom handcuffs tickle sticks a riding crop blindfold and ear muffs all very cheap things that Read more… can be purchased easily online all easy and safe things to use without causing damage, set safety words so you can tell your partner if his getting close to a limit or if you wish him to stop most use the traffic light system green go, yellow go with caution, red stop, talk to your partner make a senario together so your both comfortable in what's going to happen over time if they are the more dominant one allow them to take more and more controle leading up to him making a senario and you not knowing what's going to happen at all, things like butt plugs are a really fun and pretty thing to add to the collection that is of its something you like... There is no one size fits all there maybe things you try and don't like and that's completely fine you don't know until you try, you may try something and love it.. If you wish to go further with toys especially impact toys like floggers whips ect I would definitely read up on safe places to strike again any rope play read up on safe practices as you can cause damage if not preformed correctly
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21.04.2020 20:20:44
CurrMudgeon SO I am new to this as well, and on the advice of a mentor of mine, I started exploring this site, to see some of whats out there, read what some people say. I also found and took a bdsm test to identify my archetypes which was really enlightening for myself. https://bdsmtest.org/select-mode
This gave me a starting point to analyze some things I might be interested in.
SO I am new to this as well, and on the advice of a mentor of mine, I started exploring this site, to see some of whats out there, read what some people say. I also found and took a bdsm test to identify my archetypes which was really enlightening for myself. https://bdsmtest.org/select-mode
This gave me a starting point to analyze some things I might be interested in.
This gave me a starting point to analyze some things I might be interested in.
SO I am new to this as well, and on the advice of a mentor of mine, I started exploring this site, to see some of whats out there, read what some people say. I also found and took a bdsm test to identify my archetypes which was really enlightening for myself. https://bdsmtest.org/select-mode
This gave me a starting point to analyze some things I might be interested in.
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· 21.04.2020 0:33:58
TheAlphaSub Watch and different kinds of erotica and see what gets your engine started 😉 Watch and different kinds of erotica and see what gets your engine started 😉
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· 20.04.2020 23:19:11
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