Hi, I also am new to this site and fetishes as well. Like you I enjoy wearing my wife's panties. But after like 13 years of hiding it from her I had to finally tell her. And she was very cool with it infact she had fetishes if her own that she didn't want to share because the guy she was with Read more… before me had shamed her and told her that stuff was gross and weird. Long story short we are now exploring our sexuality's and fetishes with each other. Sometimes I'm the dominant and that's what she really enjoys. But when I've had a long or difficult week at work she Pampers me and I dress up in panties and the likes. And I get to be by girly for awhile. Which is such a stress relief and helps recharge my batteries. So if you haven't already done so I can't say it enough try sharing your interest in panties with your wife. It might be difficult like it was for me I was nervous as hell. But it's better one way or another than holding thoes feelings in. Just a friendly suggestion.