Deleted profile Greetings Niceguy84, I am in the same boat you are and I sympathize. I liked what the other members have said.
Be careful with scammers, they can be found on all online dating sites and basically want your *** and will lie, deceive, and trick you a dozen ways to get it.
If you have enjoyable Read more… hobbies that include women, enjoy your hobbies and talk with women that have a similar interest. Get out and attend a munch. Meet people and talk with them. Meet some kinksters and find a mentor dom/Master to help you learn the basics. There is a difference between subs and slaves.
There are many books on BDSM that you can read and do some research. It will take time and effort.
Someone suggested going to social public places, museums, art galleries, concerts, and even bars and night clubs. Meeting people, talking with them, getting to know them, be honest with them.
You might find a girlfriend first then gently bringing the topic up to see if she has any interest in it. Finding a girlfriend, means getting yourself out there among women, either at events of common interest or doing hobbies of common interest, talking with them, discovering who they are and where they are going. You might find some women who are interested in you.
Be comfortable with yourself, confident, and honest. Make friends with people, male and female. Your friends might help you find a woman. Have fun in your search. Don't drink to excess and be polite.
There are times in everyone's life that being single is just temporary. Accept it and don't stress over it. Make some goals to reach your objective. If it means, learning to dance, visiting a dance club, singing karoke, or just enjoying yourself among other people. Be yourself and enjoy it. Have faith that there is a woman that will be your girlfriend. Take steps to find her (but don't stalk her). Go out and enjoy your hobbies. A woman might find you if you are visible and pleasant.
Good luck out there.

Deleted profile Well of course it’s not easy!
I just read your intro on your profile and it doesn’t look inviting.
Also you need to understand that a sub is a big responsibility and as for a slave it’s impossible for you at your level to considering one.
Good luck anyway Well of course it’s not easy!
I just read your intro on your profile and it doesn’t look inviting.
Also you need to understand that a sub is a big responsibility and as for a slave it’s impossible for you at your level to considering one.
Good luck anyway

BigPolly What the other guys have said....then once you’ve done what @Jed has said, start reading the magazines & forums on here, look at the topics that come up on the forum, ask questions to all of us, listen to the replies etc
If you want to find out what the kink world holds in person then maybe start attending a Munch in your local area.
Also be patient, learning & looking for a match isn’t a quick process & be prepared to keep changing your mind whilst learning.
Good luck What the other guys have said....then once you’ve done what @Jed has said, start reading the magazines & forums on here, look at the topics that come up on the forum, ask questions to all of us, listen to the replies etc
If you want to find out what the kink world holds in person then maybe start attending a Munch in your local area.
Also be patient, learning & looking for a match isn’t a quick process & be prepared to keep changing your mind whilst learning.
Good luck