You are correct, meet in a public place for say a coffee and my advise would be get to know each other. Take the kink out and what would you do if you where meeting anyone new or what advise would you give your friend.

It should be both way communication and needs , also silence have you ever discussed this as for me it’s a hard limit in negotiations. My advise would be take away the title he’s a human being and should treat someone properly doesn’t matter he is a Dom , if this was one of your friends what advise Read more… would you give them . Maybe take some time and think what you want and need and how it’s going and then chat to him if you can and then if no change , it’s then for you decide if your willing to live like this , hope this helps you deserve to be happy

Getting to that level of trust is a big thing and absolutely needs to be consensual, shows work and glad to see the safeword is always in place , interesting reading

Women come in all shapes and sizes , it can be nerve racking coming into this lifestyle on here but I would say believe in you and have confidence in who you are as a person , don’t compare yourself .

Great piece, definitely wise words , I totally understand it , caution is key , know yourself . I see it as like a kid in a sweet shop and you just want to try everything.