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Important points to remember:
Act quickly: Apply ice as soon as possible after an *** for the best results.
Don't apply ice directly to skin: Always wrap ice packs in a cloth to prevent skin damage.
Consult a doctor if: You experience excessive bruising without a known cause, or if you have concerns about bruising related to medication side effects.

Fyi the belly button is the dirtiest place on the human body. 2000 varieties of bacteria in that warm little moist hole.

You need to add toys and get permission to be able to use them. This way he is still involved even if at work for instant.

I think a contract is much more powerful than a collar.

It's just symbolism. A collar means very little actually.

You are talking about a very wide spectrum here. It can be as simple as petting someone with bunny ears on at night on the couch. It can also go full blown hucow out in the barn getting milked daily. Gotta find your niche with your partner.

Women aren't mainly attracted to looks like men. Women will be with an ugly a** dude and show him off like he is a king. Just because she isn't attracted to you anymore doesn't mean it's your physical appearance. Move on and pick a partner who is a better fit.