I am 40 years old, I have been in the BDSM lifestyle for 21 years. I'm very well versed in most things to do with BDSM and the community. I do go to and host Munches and teach 101 classes. I truly believe that no one's learning journey is ever complete. no one knows everything there is to know and if you aren't willing to admit you might have something to learn, you are not a good partner.
Ask yourself if you would still want the person if they were fully transitioned, or decided not to. Maybe cross dressers are better for you. Or maybe you need to find a "for now" relationship with someone who is transitioning. But you need to be SUPER up front with that person and tell them exactly Read more… what you want and let them decide if they are ok with it. If they aren't, don't consider them a jerk for not wanting to be your fantasy.
There have only been maybe 2 or 3 partners in my life that did NOT get me to orgasm with PIV sex. It baffles me when people say they have never orgasmed with penetrative sex. But I do not orgasm with clitoral stimulation. It drives me crazy when men try to make me. It's sensitive, but I will never Read more… orgasm from it. I need g spot stimulation. And yes, the g spot is real for those who think that's a myth. LoL