I was extremely lucky enough to have a mentor at start of my journey. An experienced sub to help me navigate the emotional rollercoaster, despite being opposite types.
I would love to create a community of mentorship as think invaluable

I had a very different understanding of alpha sub label. I was very surprised when started this journey of use of labels in a community I wanted to be more free in. I was labelled as a brat ( a term I do not like , for me) . Also an alpha sub, this due to my independence/ career female in day to Read more… day life, then switching to submissive in this life .

Meg Myers desire

To make me a better version of myself was his promise to me. Not to mould me into something else, not to just sexually satisfy self with punishment/tasks or scenes.
During an incredible personal stressful situation in my life, I was punished for not completing a task with origami. I absolutely Read more… hated it. But what I didn't know at that time, it was a method to get me to give my brain a break on what else was going on while I focused on this. I slept that night for the first time in weeks. Punishment isn't always black and white. What I truly believe is it's to benefit me