Comparing turning a sub to switch, for your benefit, even if they have no interest in it, to asking someone to try your hobby, is a bit worrying

However you dress it, you are asking for advice, on how to convince someone to do what you want, even if it isn't what they want. You're asking to be given the skills to enable you to convince someone, to give you what you crave, to convince a sub, to act as a switch because you want it, even if Read more… they don't. If they aren't a switch, if they aren't switch curious, you don't try & "negotiate" them in to being one.

Create a routine, a process of triggers, that help you become either your sub or dom 'persona'. As a example, when a sub wants to go in to littlespace, you have a routine that involves, clothing, bedding & accessories, as well as things like hairstyles, scents, the language you use, it's all a Read more… serious of triggers, to create that psychological & emotional state. If you find it difficult to switch, create a different routine for your sub & dom sides. Use different shower gel, different deodorant, maybe only dom wears aftershave not sub, have a completely divided wardrobe so sub never wears your dom clothes & vice versa, have different bedding for each. Just create a clear difference between the 2, that have their own routines, clothing, accessories, grooming routines, etc, use the visual, the tactile feelings, the smells & structure to help you enter either dom or sub mindsets.

I always be wary of people, who say they are subs but focus predominantly on 1 fetish/kink, especially if you say you're not in to it & they keep steering the conversations back to the subject again & again, in my experience they tend not to be submissive & are essentially roleplaying Read more… being submissive, to get their fetish/kink fulfilled.

Think some people need to read the original post properly
"We've agreed on what I'd call him".
Shes not asking for suggestions of what to call him, just suggestions on how to say, the name/honourific they've all ready chosen, for the first time, in person, for most effect.

The easiest way to be more memorable isn't to go with anything prepared, other than manners & respect. When you meet, whatever he says, whether it's a statement or a question, is to use that in your responce, like if he says "it's a bit cold", reply, "yes it is a bit cold today but I'm warm Read more… from the excitement of meeting you (insert chosen word) " or if he says "it's nice to meet you" reply like "it's nice to meet you too (insert chosen word), I'm a bit nervous but excited to meet you (insert chosen word).
Use part of what he says, add a little too it, being polite & using the chose honourific you've decided on, showing you listened, related back what he said, added your own thoughts & feeling on what he said & showed manners & respect, whilst doing so, rather than anything rehearsed or preplanned, will be more memorable for him.