That whole genre of fake taxi porn has exploded over the last few years there's more & more of it being made & it's peaked a lot of people's interest & any mention of a taxi instantly triggers the arousal in many, it's a fantasy that could easily be a reality for them, as theirs black Read more… cabs & cabbies everywhere, anyone could be the lucky one.

Comparing turning a sub to switch, for your benefit, even if they have no interest in it, to asking someone to try your hobby, is a bit worrying

However you dress it, you are asking for advice, on how to convince someone to do what you want, even if it isn't what they want. You're asking to be given the skills to enable you to convince someone, to give you what you crave, to convince a sub, to act as a switch because you want it, even if Read more… they don't. If they aren't a switch, if they aren't switch curious, you don't try & "negotiate" them in to being one.

Create a routine, a process of triggers, that help you become either your sub or dom 'persona'. As a example, when a sub wants to go in to littlespace, you have a routine that involves, clothing, bedding & accessories, as well as things like hairstyles, scents, the language you use, it's all a Read more… serious of triggers, to create that psychological & emotional state. If you find it difficult to switch, create a different routine for your sub & dom sides. Use different shower gel, different deodorant, maybe only dom wears aftershave not sub, have a completely divided wardrobe so sub never wears your dom clothes & vice versa, have different bedding for each. Just create a clear difference between the 2, that have their own routines, clothing, accessories, grooming routines, etc, use the visual, the tactile feelings, the smells & structure to help you enter either dom or sub mindsets.

I always be wary of people, who say they are subs but focus predominantly on 1 fetish/kink, especially if you say you're not in to it & they keep steering the conversations back to the subject again & again, in my experience they tend not to be submissive & are essentially roleplaying Read more… being submissive, to get their fetish/kink fulfilled.