I(F) loved spoiling my partner(M), but they definitely did not reciprocate. It was very difficult for me as a very physical person. I don't expect to be spoiled, but I do expect the same kind of affection I am giving to an extent. I know not everyone needs the same or acts the same way, which is Read more… where communication comes in hand in a relationship of any kind.
My type of spoiling is cooking meals, doing activities together, massages or scalp rubs, taking care of them when they don't feel good, words of affirmation, and more. All I ever asked for was hugs, kisses, massages, comfort, dates, and such. I didn't need the words of affirmations, but it wouldn't be ignored. I'm not looking to be told all the time how great I'm doing because I'm doing what I feel is needed of me. I've communicated with my latest partner, but they didn't communicate with me in any way, and never did any of those things unless I asked for it. Once you have to beg for the "spoiling", it doesn't feel good.

Yes, this is very satisfying to do.

My new resolution is to be more open about my naughty side. My main resolution will be to open my business no matter what.