A lot of Doms think their role in this lifestyle is a free ticket to be abusive. What you're going through is not ok. Your memory isn't your fault. You shouldn't be snapped at, or ignored, for how your brain works. Just because you're a sub, doesn't make you a doormat. I'm not trying to tell you Read more… what to do. I'm just saying that, if it were me, I'd walk. I hope you figure out what's best for you and that you stay safe.

As long as there are full grown adults who are less mature than a five year old, there will always be young people who outgrow their elders. Some people reach maturity in their ***s. Others never do. The important part is that you communicate first. Maybe they know what they're doing. Maybe they Read more… don't. Either it's a ready to go situation, or you both get to explore, which can be fun, in and of itself.
I'd say that, if you're really worried about this, you're either over thinking, or under thinking. In both cases, asking for another opinion was probably the smartest thing you could have done. Communication is the key to any relationship. Yes. Even here. If somebody jumps straight into a role, without talking anything over, that's not a person I'd get involved with, at all. That's dangerous. That's how you wake up, missing a kidney. I've found that, when dealing with people, it's always best to be on the safe side.