Redbottomsister I was extremely lucky enough to have a mentor at start of my journey. An experienced sub to help me navigate the emotional rollercoaster, despite being opposite types.
I would love to create a community of mentorship as think invaluable I was extremely lucky enough to have a mentor at start of my journey. An experienced sub to help me navigate the emotional rollercoaster, despite being opposite types.
I would love to create a community of mentorship as think invaluable

sparky1969 Want to spoil a dominant woman Want to spoil a dominant woman

naughtything I was looking for a dom when I started but found a Mentor instead. it was the best thing I did and I got lucky as we chatted early in my journey. It's a much better relationship as he was perfect. He puts my kinks above his and I get the best out of it as it's more focused on me. I was looking for a dom when I started but found a Mentor instead. it was the best thing I did and I got lucky as we chatted early in my journey. It's a much better relationship as he was perfect. He puts my kinks above his and I get the best out of it as it's more focused on me.

eyemblacksheep ➦eyemblacksheep quote ScorpioHawke:❝Don't ask questions❞
The opposite. Ask questions.
Some guys like the idea of just having someone who will blindly do anything they ask. But this is actually open to so many issues. And I'm not saying anything like *** (although, is a problem) but Dominant asks Read more… to grab a beer. OK, so you do. Glass? No Glass? Opened? Unopened?
The best subs in those situations seek clarification. But in general, having someone who just does what they're told is very mechanical. Pre-empting is better. And a lot of that is from asking questions.
But comms is always two ways, be enquiring.

SunshineNuke ➦SunshineNuke quote MasterDarcy1979:❝Someone said "Don't ask questions". ***y hell.
This is why communication is so important. It allows you to see who people are... like the person who gave the aforementioned advice.
The best tip Is to be open minded.
Yes, we all have boundaries and gates, but in Read more… order for growth, development and change, there has to be metamorphosis and evolution.
That being said, be open minded and be willing to have your borders broken down and for exploration to reign.
To address the "Don't ask questions" thing. Always ask questions. Communication is a main pillar in any vanilla or BDSM relationship.
A good Dominant listens and will always encourage dialogue and queries.❞
This!!! 💯

SunshineNuke ➦SunshineNuke quote ScorpioHawke:❝Don't ask questions ❞
I am curious about this reply. Why not ask questions? Is there anything in particular or just don't ask questions in general? ➦SunshineNuke quote ScorpioHawke:❝Don't ask questions ❞
I am curious about this reply. Why not ask questions? Is there anything in particular or just don't ask questions in general?