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Hard limits: No death or serious bodily harm. No kids, no or vomit play, nothing that will put me in jail.
Soft limits: Heavy . I don't like putting a bunch of limits on my Domme. To me, that is too much like topping from the bottom.
At home it yes Ma'am and do it, at a play party it's humiliating and hot.
It took me a long time to figure out what the turn on is. For me it's the giving up of control. Most of my adult life i was making life and death decisions. To give up control is scary and exciting. I have always kept my hard limit list very short. Dommes i have had in the past could tie me up and Read more… take it where they wanted. It went to some crazy places the i never thought about and afterwards i felt like i had a great vacation. So for me its giving up control. That of course can lead to new places and definately added to my good list. Lol.