Thebian I know when I was first learning about the lifestyle many moons ago, often it was as useful to hear about other people's experiences that made be think eeeek!
I would always ask them why they enjoyed the activity, what part the sensation or the emotion, it took a while to be able to get my head Read more… around how other people process their pleasure.
In turn that made me a better Dom and I am pretty sure if I had been submissive it would have made me a better submissive to.
The greatest lesson to learn after you have your limits, wants, and needs is the ability to build rapport with other community members while accepting them for who they are.
Good luch and remember forget the destination just have an awesome journey.

cautiousswitch Think about your limits first. Having doubts or feeling like you are being guilted into doing something when you are asked to do it because you didn't question the activity beforehand. Think about your limits first. Having doubts or feeling like you are being guilted into doing something when you are asked to do it because you didn't question the activity beforehand.

Hangingtuff Just be yourself. There's nothing worse than a sub without their own mind and personality that just wants to do what they think is correct. Learn as you go, the dom will learn about you and the chemistry will intensify Just be yourself. There's nothing worse than a sub without their own mind and personality that just wants to do what they think is correct. Learn as you go, the dom will learn about you and the chemistry will intensify