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Understanding My Like for Bondage
The question I have asked myself lately:
Why do I like bondage and why does it make me feel so good?
For me personally I love the aesthetic beauty and artistry of a rope well tied against my skin, or any woman’s body for that matter. I truly find it a beautiful sight to behold. Each knot carefully Read more…and thoughtfully planned out and executed. I love that even when the rope is removed, red marks are left behind on my skin, almost like a fleeting but welcome reminder of my moments in bondage. I love the duality of the symbolism behind it. For example that while I’m bound , I am completely restrained and at my Doms mercy, but it is in this state that I am free from the burden of choice and decision, and my over active mind is finally quieted and at peace. This is where I feel this type of bliss. The power exchange that occurs the moment that first knot is applied and tightly fastened around my body and I am no longer in control of anything. There is no worry for me, no concern, no over analyzing or second guessing or questioning. My mind is ALWAYS over active, always 3-6 steps ahead of where I am!. But when I’m bound there are no worries, there are no troubles, only focus: your pleasure! My Dom is in complete control, the decision maker, and my mind is free and liberated, relaxed and finally at ease. It’s when the rope are applied to my body that my bliss begins. At that moment of surrender to my Dom. It is a unique state of Bliss for me because I cannot think of anything more deep, erotic, and intense than the moment when I yield to my Doms power and control, and fully give myself in those moments, my mind, body, and soul.
Why do I like bondage and why does it make me feel so good?
For me personally I love the aesthetic beauty and artistry of a rope well tied against my skin, or any woman’s body for that matter. I truly find it a beautiful sight to behold. Each knot carefully Read more…and thoughtfully planned out and executed. I love that even when the rope is removed, red marks are left behind on my skin, almost like a fleeting but welcome reminder of my moments in bondage. I love the duality of the symbolism behind it. For example that while I’m bound , I am completely restrained and at my Doms mercy, but it is in this state that I am free from the burden of choice and decision, and my over active mind is finally quieted and at peace. This is where I feel this type of bliss. The power exchange that occurs the moment that first knot is applied and tightly fastened around my body and I am no longer in control of anything. There is no worry for me, no concern, no over analyzing or second guessing or questioning. My mind is ALWAYS over active, always 3-6 steps ahead of where I am!. But when I’m bound there are no worries, there are no troubles, only focus: your pleasure! My Dom is in complete control, the decision maker, and my mind is free and liberated, relaxed and finally at ease. It’s when the rope are applied to my body that my bliss begins. At that moment of surrender to my Dom. It is a unique state of Bliss for me because I cannot think of anything more deep, erotic, and intense than the moment when I yield to my Doms power and control, and fully give myself in those moments, my mind, body, and soul.
Will57Y As a Dom, a lot of what you've written resonates with me and makes sense and I've read similar things - especially from subs about enjoying being free from making decisions and being calm and at peace ... or feeling able to enjoy what their partner is doing since they have "no" control over it.
For me, this is my biggest kink because of how much trust my partner must have in me to not just permit me to bind her, but actively want me to restrain her.
As a Dom, a lot of what you've written resonates with me and makes sense and I've read similar things - especially from subs about enjoying being free from making decisions and being calm and at peace ... or feeling able to enjoy what their partner is doing since they have "no" control over it.
For me, this is my biggest kink because of how much trust my partner must have in me to not just permit me to bind her, but actively want me to restrain her.
For me, this is my biggest kink because of how much trust my partner must have in me to not just permit me to bind her, but actively want me to restrain her.
As a Dom, a lot of what you've written resonates with me and makes sense and I've read similar things - especially from subs about enjoying being free from making decisions and being calm and at peace ... or feeling able to enjoy what their partner is doing since they have "no" control over it.
For me, this is my biggest kink because of how much trust my partner must have in me to not just permit me to bind her, but actively want me to restrain her.
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· 02.06.2022 6:48:53
Worship
I’ve learned services can mean different things to different people. Just as submission is different depending on the person and dynamic, so is the type of service that submissive provides. What draws us all together is the feeling of fulfillment that comes from doing something for the person Read more… receiving service, that this person requested. This fulfillment may take the form of emotional fulfillment or even sexual arousal and satisfaction on the part of the service orientated person. I personally think if you feel comfortable with a more sexual submission service, then that does not make you a bad submissive at all.
Likenobody9999, FreedomPlz ·
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Worship
Worship.
It’s a loaded term filled with meaning, both secular and religious. Merriam-Webster defines worship as “to honor or show reverence for as a divine being or supernatural power” and “to regard with great or extravagant respect, honor, or devotion.” Kink, at its best, transcends both Read more…definitions. But what does it mean to worship another human as a god while maintaining your belief in their humanity?
For me, worship is at its purest when language ceases and touch rules an interaction. It’s when I’m on my knees in nothing more than my underwear, slowly, reverently, dutifully pressing my tongue and lips to their boots before my kisses scale their calves and my hands find their thighs. I stay as long as they’ll have me, and then I start again. From the top. From the bottom. Left leg. Right leg. Wherever they direct me, I use my touch to help them see their value and their worth and to feel my adoration and gratitude for being allowed to worship at their feet.
It’s the closest I come to subspace, that promised land of an empty mind and relaxed body. So much of kink revolves around the submissive’s pleasure, but it isn’t until my pleasure is removed from the equation that I can fully submit. When I worship my Dom, tongue pressed against the warm leather of their boots, fingers kneading the sore muscles of their legs—everything disappears. All that’s left is the deep sense of rightness that blooms when I kneel at their feet and worship the pieces of their body that they allow me to touch.
Sometimes, that touch becomes less gentle. It becomes the rocking of hips over their boots as my hands continue their ministrations, a moan escaping me as their hand dips inside their jeans. Worship creates a space for my Dom to take as much pleasure as they want and need. When I’m in this space, their pleasure subsumes mine. I’m not turned on because they’re touching me; I’m turned on because I experience their pleasure as my own.
In that way, worship is not so different than service—albeit heightened. I give myself with no expectation of return because my love and adoration move me in that way. It may seem contrary, but worship is the time in which I’m mostly clearly able to see my Dom. When I worship them, it’s because they are worthy of it, and a human in need of it, to remind them of their strength and their power and their worthiness.
Worship asks what I’m willing to give, and I find myself answering everything. And for those five, ten, fif*** minutes when I’m nothing but lips on black leather boots and hands on jean-clad legs, I know no other truth.
It’s a loaded term filled with meaning, both secular and religious. Merriam-Webster defines worship as “to honor or show reverence for as a divine being or supernatural power” and “to regard with great or extravagant respect, honor, or devotion.” Kink, at its best, transcends both Read more…definitions. But what does it mean to worship another human as a god while maintaining your belief in their humanity?
For me, worship is at its purest when language ceases and touch rules an interaction. It’s when I’m on my knees in nothing more than my underwear, slowly, reverently, dutifully pressing my tongue and lips to their boots before my kisses scale their calves and my hands find their thighs. I stay as long as they’ll have me, and then I start again. From the top. From the bottom. Left leg. Right leg. Wherever they direct me, I use my touch to help them see their value and their worth and to feel my adoration and gratitude for being allowed to worship at their feet.
It’s the closest I come to subspace, that promised land of an empty mind and relaxed body. So much of kink revolves around the submissive’s pleasure, but it isn’t until my pleasure is removed from the equation that I can fully submit. When I worship my Dom, tongue pressed against the warm leather of their boots, fingers kneading the sore muscles of their legs—everything disappears. All that’s left is the deep sense of rightness that blooms when I kneel at their feet and worship the pieces of their body that they allow me to touch.
Sometimes, that touch becomes less gentle. It becomes the rocking of hips over their boots as my hands continue their ministrations, a moan escaping me as their hand dips inside their jeans. Worship creates a space for my Dom to take as much pleasure as they want and need. When I’m in this space, their pleasure subsumes mine. I’m not turned on because they’re touching me; I’m turned on because I experience their pleasure as my own.
In that way, worship is not so different than service—albeit heightened. I give myself with no expectation of return because my love and adoration move me in that way. It may seem contrary, but worship is the time in which I’m mostly clearly able to see my Dom. When I worship them, it’s because they are worthy of it, and a human in need of it, to remind them of their strength and their power and their worthiness.
Worship asks what I’m willing to give, and I find myself answering everything. And for those five, ten, fif*** minutes when I’m nothing but lips on black leather boots and hands on jean-clad legs, I know no other truth.
whenwetalklikethis I think a good rule might be that this form of worship has to play out in the psycho-sexual arena. Boots definitely can make an appearance there,washing up dishes almost certainly has no relevance as worship in the D/s sense. I have a very nice pair of highly polished black Church’s Oxford shoes Read more… against which a sub may rest her smooth cheek whilst she is praised or corrected. The leather and the memory of its smell and its smoothness are what is important. It’s not the shoes that are being worshipped but the context. Loving, needing or desiring the stool upon which you are sent to kneel does not fetishise the stool but imprints the worship of the one who sent you there
LikeSunshyneee, Cathy-3326
· 21.12.2021 12:15:02
Sunshyneee ➦Sunshyneee quote Deleted profile:❝You know, the concept of worship makes me question whether I am actually submissive. I can't conceive of actual worship as I understand the term (and I think you described it pretty well) because it implies a ... well a subservience I just don't feel. To me, it Read more… puts the person/ thing/ concept being worshipped on a level with a god, and I just can't put anyone that high above myself. Pride, and all that.
I enjoy doing cock worship, but I think that's something different. To me, that's laving attention and seeking not to bring my Dominant to orgasm, but just to pleasure. I couldn't do that to boots, as in the example you gave, because I don't really like feet and shoes are dirty lol but also because it's not sexual so much as subservience.
Maybe that's it? Maybe I can offer sexual submission but not personal? Does that make me a bad submissive? Does that make me "not a real submissive"? No idea. Thoughts welcome. But I am fairly certain that I couldn't bring myself to "worship" my Dominant as a whole. ❞
I’ve learned services can mean different things to different people. Just as submission is different depending on the person and dynamic, so is the type of service that submissive provides. What draws us all together is the feeling of fulfillment that comes from doing something for the person receiving service, that this person requested. This fulfillment may take the form of emotional fulfillment or even sexual arousal and satisfaction on the part of the service orientated person. I personally think if you feel comfortable with a more sexual submission service, then that does not make you a bad submissive at all.
I enjoy doing cock worship, but I think that's something different. To me, that's laving attention and seeking not to bring my Dominant to orgasm, but just to pleasure. I couldn't do that to boots, as in the example you gave, because I don't really like feet and shoes are dirty lol but also because it's not sexual so much as subservience.
Maybe that's it? Maybe I can offer sexual submission but not personal? Does that make me a bad submissive? Does that make me "not a real submissive"? No idea. Thoughts welcome. But I am fairly certain that I couldn't bring myself to "worship" my Dominant as a whole. ❞
I’ve learned services can mean different things to different people. Just as submission is different depending on the person and dynamic, so is the type of service that submissive provides. What draws us all together is the feeling of fulfillment that comes from doing something for the person receiving service, that this person requested. This fulfillment may take the form of emotional fulfillment or even sexual arousal and satisfaction on the part of the service orientated person. I personally think if you feel comfortable with a more sexual submission service, then that does not make you a bad submissive at all.
Likenobody9999, FreedomPlz
· 21.12.2021 0:45:12
Char__ (Also I'm so glad you posted this interesting topic, because I'd be lamenting a lack of deep discussion around the site recently, and this made me happy). (Also I'm so glad you posted this interesting topic, because I'd be lamenting a lack of deep discussion around the site recently, and this made me happy).
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20.12.2021 23:54:25
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== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
99% Submissive
97% Brat
94% Masochist
91% Rope bunny
65% Experimentalist
56% Degradee
38% Switch
38% Voyeur
37% Read more… Slave
35% Exhibitionist
34% Primal (Prey)
33% Non-monogamist
31% Vanilla
16% Dominant
7% Primal (Hunter)
6% Pet
0% Rigger
0% Daddy/Mommy
0% Sadist
0% Owner
0% Master/Mistress
0% Boy/Girl
0% Degrader
0% Brat tamer
0% Ageplayer
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