I have been in the lifestyle for a long time , I have been a protector for friends, a dom, a sub, I love all aspects of this world. The dark and demented makes life more entertaining. Pushing limits , giving people new experiences, trying new and exciting things. this lifestyle in my opinion requires more trust, respect, and honesty than a typical relationship. Plenty of people get scared by that word, relationship. Let's face it that's what it is even if it's a play partner you still have a relationship.
I will not dom you out of the box nor will I submit. it takes talking and learning you to really get a feel of what we both need. The wants and needs need to be met mutually otherwise what's the point right? feel free to send a message I always get back to people even if it's a quick question.
just remember schnazzberries taste like schnazzberries, dingle berries do not.
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It's hard to walk away from what you know
Just like anywhere there are a lot of fake people. I don't think that everyone sleeps around as much as you think. They may play but in this lifestyle it doesn't always lead to sex. I don't sleep around for the same reason you have stated. In all honesty disease is a real thing safety first. That Read more… being said if you're always afraid to look or try how do you get over your ***? Friendships are relationships and they start by sending a message or saying hey to get to know someone. On the other side of that men get tired of trying to reach out to women to get ignored or.sold.content. trying to find a relationship that's real with a submissive or.dominant woman is just as hard in my opinion for us as it is for you.