One person also told me that if they feel bored or no longer interested in doing something with their submissive then it no longer is fun to them and “ just becomes work “

I would like advice on this if anyone is willing to give it. In my recent experience I have met many different people who claim to be masters. Then when I ask them to explain their kinks or ideas about what that means they say that bdsm is just a game that should not be taken seriously and I find a Read more… problem with this. I feel like I’m right about it and I expressed that I am not comfortable with their ideas and don’t want to pursue any kind of sexual relationship with them due to the fact I do not think it is safe. They are trying to make me believe I am wrong about it, and that I am being close minded. What should I do ?