I pretty much deal with life through humor and while I may be kind of quiet at first, it doesn't take long for the quick wit, sarcasm and dark humor to start coming out! I'm open, honest and enjoy getting to know people. Anything you want to know about me is only a question away! I run my own business and have active hobbies, but I also enjoy relaxing at home when I can.
I'm looking for a real connection with someone! Catching the eye is one thing, catching the mind is a challenge. Catch my mind and you'll definitely have my full attention! I'm looking for the right fit to help me to be the best I can be so that we can both get the most enjoyment from the experience. Definitely looking for someone that wants to build trust and openness.
I'm a person first, so if you're planning to message me and tell me how you're going to put me in my place or start giving me commands, then do us both a favor and do better. I'm not jumping into a dynamic with someone in 5 minutes. Get to know me, ask questions. I'll do the same. My submission is earned just as I would expect to earn your dominance. Trust is built, respect is earned, limits will be respected absolutely.
If you're still reading this far and still interested, then send me a message and let's chat! Who knows, you might just make a new friend! Maybe more!
Soft limits: I'm still finding what my limits are.... Have something you want to try let's talk about it....
Hard limits:
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I wouldn't be opposed to the idea. I think it might actually make some things easier that way.
It's definitely tough finding what you are looking for and the rejection definitely gets old! Been going through it myself. It's a lot of the issues you've been having and for me quite a few that really just immediately want someone to boss around and couldn't be less interested in getting to know Read more… you or finding out what you might be into or want. Maybe one day I'll find the right person!
You're overcomplicating it.... The voice command to take a picture works wonders....
Absolutely, I've weeded out several "Dommes" exactly that way. There are far too many out there that either come off as pushy and/or a bully or that see a submissive man as a walking open wallet. Definitely makes finding the right person difficult.....most of the time it makes finding someone that Read more… makes it past a 5 minute conversation difficult! Confidence is sexy, being a bully is not.
So true! Well put!
Truly believe I'm an inferior person? Not at all. Hyrrolar above me is right. There's far more nuance to it than that. I think if I actually believed that I wouldn't be able to function as well in the real world. I think there's a very important distinction to be made between believing myself Read more… inferior vs going along with the dynamic and giving up that power and control at the time in the dynamic. Ironically, Hyrrolar is also right about the other part... Speaking for myself I run a successful business, volunteer my time in other places and I'm very competitive at several other hobbies. So, no, I don't actually believe I'm inferior to anybody but there is definitely a lot of subtlety and nuance to that dynamic. People are complicated!