Fairly new to the scene... But I have known since just before puberty I was polyamorous and had a kink.. that's since about 1973/4!
I have danced around the bdsm scene from my first marriage in 86 when we both discovered that she liked to be spanked subsequent girlfriend's have taken me a little further down that route. Only recently have I began to learn the correct labels that would describe how I'm wired up ?

Desires and Fantasies
I am definitely a dom. To what degree I'm still discovering, exactly which kinks and play I am happy with, again I am still discovering. I have been introduced to the ddlg scene and that is opening quite a few doors that I suspect I've been keeping shut all of my life ? I have been a daddy Dom, and an experienced family member who is a sadistic mistress says I am a service Dom. I bow to her experience ?
I am trying to be open minded about what I look at, I don't expect that everything will work for me but I am being really surprised by what does.
I really like to put a collar on my subs.....
I would like to meet someone who will share my kink journey with me.