Hey everyone. I'm a 40 year old, athletic, straight guy from Sacramento. Until now, I was a monogamist. I might still be, not sure.
I recently started dating a 26 year old, bi, poly Queen. She's mostly into women-after dating a few tools before me, but we are both in love. She is into BDSM and VERY dirty talk. We are evaluating potentially having a few girlfriends, though I only want to do that with her. My boundary was that I want to be the only guy and she can have girlfriends as long as it is all honest and above the board. I just want to play or date them too, if they are into me. I don't want to communicate with any other girls from an emotional relationship standpoint, but I can line up play pals or girlfriends for us/her.
I've bever dabbled in this world and have been super vanilla my whole life, sexually, though I certainly know how to throw down in the bedroom and serve my partner.
Any advice for this guy?!
My partner and I started our relationship in the last 2 months. She 8s/was super into kink/bdsm and I was/am "vanilla". We discussed what commonalities I had, when she asked me to sign up for a profile on Fetlife to look into the things she likes. I checked the "boxes" of things I was into and we Read more… found so much common ground that we now can play in those areas and satisfy needs for us both!