To porn or not to porn

[Ri****]

What's the consensus on watching porn during sex? Is it ok to use as a visual aid during, or does it take away from and or insult/belittle your partner?

[Ho****]

Inquiring minds wanna know. What do the ladies think about it?

[Qu****]

Are threesomes an aid to your sex life or do they insult/belittle your partner? There’s no straight answer. Just depends on communication, preferences, and boundaries

[Ra****]

I wouldn’t mind it for a change and enjoy watching it here and there. To use as a ‘visual aid’ when with a partner suggests to me there is a deeper issue? Just me though!

[Po****]

I think it takes away from the intimacy you’re trying to have with your partner but if it turns some people on then so be it but it wouldn’t be for me personally.

[Ba****]

For me, it would fall into the same category as any other sex aid. Would you be offended if a woman used a vibrator as a physical aid during? Cos that’s basically the same thing. It would also depend on the type of porn. If it’s something I’m not into, then it would obviously be a turn off and I wouldn’t be ok with it.

As with everything, the only way to get a real and valid answer to this is to communicate honestly and openly with your partner. Because everyone has different opinions about this and the opinions of strangers on the internet matter very little

[To****]

Personally I've not watched porn with a partner for years, but used to quite regularly (and not sure why I haven't to be honest!). I find it was a good way to get things going, especially if it was in the theme of the evening- i.e. bondage etc. It's also useful in a stable relationship when one partner has a higher sex drive than there other, as it can help get them both in the mood. As other commenters have put though, if you NEED porn to get you in the mood then there may be other issues to look into. 👍

[ey****]

Personal preferences.

For me, no I wouldn't. But that doesn't mean those who did are 'wrong', just, kinda as long as everyone involved is cool with it.

[Co****]

Maybe as part of the forplay warm up........it all depends on the person's involved. Tbh now I ve found kink.......and the intensity that can bring , ......I think it would be distracting.
I would want the attention and focus to be on what was happening in the Physical.
Not on a screen.

[Es****]

I’ve done it before in foreplay environments, while receiving head and watching porn. And also the other way around. It was really pleasurable 🔥🤤🥵 I’ve not done it in combination with sex because our tastes differ with the categories we like and it could be a turn off for me.
But definitely a recommendation if both parties consent.

[kimutu72]

I dont normally watch porn while having a session, but I have connected my phone to my projector and placed it so we can watch our session on the big screen. Theres nothing wrong with watching porn,but always communicate with your play partner as you might find something hott but they may not

[Widowkj]

Porn is just another tool. I use it to help mastrabation sometimes. Sometimes, I watch it to research a scene or a story.
My first husband would watch it while he 'trained me ' to suck. I was in my 20s and felt like I was missing something when I couldn't see it. I have used it as foreplay. I don't like it distracting the main event.

[Bourbonandice]

Outside of play and sex it can be nice to watch, but it can also set unrealistic expectations and pressures.

I’ve never felt the need to watch it with a partner.

As others have said definitely not during sex as it would distract from the play. I’d much rather open the curtains and watch the world watching us than have porn on.

[Mr****]

I’ve had a few women actually either put it on or request it. Sets a hot kinky vibe and does help hearing the moans and stuff or seeing a good position as an example to try out. I don’t think it’s ever a bad background music choice. There’s music and songs that could be bad choices but porn in the background? Never.

[do****]

I love it but it’s hard to find a girl that does too

[Ya****]

Everything is valid, If everyone involved enjoys It. I dont enjoy It very much, but if my girl enjoyed It really much, I would use It as a reward :)

[ki****]

If we could ever pick just one. We spend most time scrolling thru the 100s of thousands of videos. Lol

[De****]

I prefer watching our amateur videos 😈🤤

[my****]

It’s fine, but I’ve always been more interested in what’s right in front of me.

[ki****]

Mood setter

[Ph****]

One partner is into having it on. It doesn't do much for me when I'd rather be concentrating on who I am with. So I'm cool with it being on if it makes it better for them.

[Vi****]

Whatever sets the mood or enhances the activity I’m down with

[Deleted Member]

I think everybody’s different. Personally, it would hurt my feelings if someone wanted to watch porn while they were having sex with me. But I’m very involved and I only watch porn when I’m alone.

[pr****]

I get in that zone and it’s just temporary but it’s always interesting seeing how the other people react and it’s a 50/50 really. The thing is it’s all fantasy, so why not go full ***. It’s just sex . But when it ***ls back a bandaid or trauma because of past whatever’s in folks lives , that sucks and that’s the last thing you want happening is someone else’s dose of reality, when it’s open season with open minds and the needle skips the record and party’s over.
I’ve had it go so incredibly dirty and makes up for the times when it gets to something weird
Try to roll with it and be mindful
Don’t stop pulling it
Slow down listen proceed with our gettin cut

[po****]

I love watch porn with women becouse we gett together weet end horny like ass fuck end also we can learn new things