La**** Posted Monday at 07:29 AM Posted Monday at 07:29 AM Tell her you are disappointed from the lack of support and communication and for that you’ll be focusing on yourself for a day, and then ignore her for the day.. it really allows her time to think about everything.
TheBookCollector Posted Monday at 07:31 AM Posted Monday at 07:31 AM 1 minute ago, Lavenderlover said: Tell her you are disappointed from the lack of support and communication and for that you’ll be focusing on yourself for a day, and then ignore her for the day.. it really allows her time to think about everything. Understand that it is not her fault, as it was not communicated that she should check in with him, so explain why she should be disciplined for something that was not her error.
Th**** Posted Monday at 09:02 PM Posted Monday at 09:02 PM *You* are the one who's made the mistakes here and any failure is yours to own. Reacting in anger is a very unhealthy way to process and express your valid feelings of disappointment. If you did not clearly express your expectations regarding your wants and needs in advance then she's done nothing wrong and it's even more wrong of you to have given any sort of "punishment" for not being a mind reader.
Th**** Posted Monday at 09:07 PM Posted Monday at 09:07 PM On 9/15/2024 at 12:32 PM, dominantwedgiedaddy said: Just simply tell her,”this is for serious inquiries ONLY! Don’t waste my time!”something like that,or be nicer and be like, “so do you still want to do this?are you ready to be a sub?” On 9/15/2024 at 12:39 PM, bittenkiss said: don't text or call her. Ha! see how she likes it. 13 hours ago, Lavenderlover said: Tell her you are disappointed from the lack of support and communication and for that you’ll be focusing on yourself for a day, and then ignore her for the day.. it really allows her time to think about everything. All of these suggestions are manipulative and at the least unhealthy and moving into the direction of mistreatment, since I'm sure the bots will censor "***" 🙄 In other words, all bad advice.
ey**** Posted Monday at 09:12 PM Posted Monday at 09:12 PM slight further thought the thing with any form of punishment is you cannot take it back. it's something which should always be trodden carefully on if you are ever unsure one kinda important thing is that most courts reject the "BDSM defence" - so if she says you struck her, and you say "it was a BDSM punishment" you better have heavy receipts this was consensual because they won't buy it. And they can and will prosecute you.
Th**** Posted Monday at 09:29 PM Posted Monday at 09:29 PM 13 minutes ago, eyemblacksheep said: slight further thought the thing with any form of punishment is you cannot take it back. it's something which should always be trodden carefully on if you are ever unsure one kinda important thing is that most courts reject the "BDSM defence" - so if she says you struck her, and you say "it was a BDSM punishment" you better have heavy receipts this was consensual because they won't buy it. And they can and will prosecute you. Also... depending on the specific laws where you live whether or not there's consent is irrelevant. In the US in particular there are areas where, legally speaking, consent can not be given for a lot of what happens within BDSM & kink and much of it is actually illegal.
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